How do I deal with a sensitive girlfriend who blows up at things I say?

You got to set and enforce healthy boundaries.

I had the email newsletter that I did today was exactly that.

So this guy, he's been following me two months.

He's been with his girlfriend for three years.

Obviously, he's not showing up because things are great in his relationship.

But one of the things he's struggled with since he started dating

her, she's very needy, very insecure, demands that he sends her a good morning, text every morning.

I keep in mind, they've been together three years. And I assume they're not long distance,

but it's like, I mean, if you've been together three years, by that period of time, you're either

living together or every night, you're at her house or she's at your house.

And so if you're constantly having a girlfriend that gets pissed off, you don't text enough

because he's trying to do less texting, but she gets mad, but he says if he texts her every

day and says, good morning, like a robot, and does what she says, she's nicer to him.

And so the problem is he's walking on eggshells because he's worried about pissing off his girlfriend.

And so he's jumping through his butt, but also is like his day revolves around making sure he responds quickly to her text messages. And the problem is he started doing

that the moment they started dating. And in those cases, you've got to set enforce healthy boundaries.

You've got to say, I have meetings to go to. It's like, I love talking to you, but I want to be

able to be spontaneous. If I want to text you and tell you I was thinking about you or I missed you or whatever, I'm looking forward to seeing you tonight, I want to do it because I feel like doing, not because you're going to come unglued or get upset or yell at me or be mad or tell me that I don't care about you because they didn't send you a good morning text every single morning like a robot. If you want to talk to me, you can pick up the phone and call too. I want easy going, easy

to get along with, not a woman who has daddy or mommy issues or didn't get enough strokes as a

kid and expects me to constantly be available 24-7 because guys will do that. And then what happens is

because typically, again, like we're talking about earlier,

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