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Hi, my question is about a shared asset I have with my other adult siblings.

So the asset is actually in Texas, and it was given to all of us by my parents and it was, it's

definitely been a blessing and it's getting to the point where there wasn't really a long-term

plan put in place.

So it's starting to feel less like a blessing and more of a point of conflict.

Mm-hmm. So me and more of a point of conflict.

So me and all my siblings have lived there.

It's a house.

And me and all my siblings have, our names are on it.

And we have all lived there at some point while paying rent, except my brother is now, he's been in the house for about six years,

and he hasn't paid rent.

And he's currently on leave with the military.

And I tried to reach out to make a plan before he left, and he didn't respond to anything. So I'm wondering how to navigate this asset and keep it a blessing while preserving our relationships. How many siblings total?

There's four of us. And how did he get this deal? How did he just start living in when everybody else has lived in it and paid rent? I'm presuming you guys have rented it to other people as well. Is that true?

I think we've rented it to one other family. How did he get away with living rent-free for six years?

So it was kind of like on your integrity.

There was an account set up and you put a certain amount in that account every month.

And he decided he didn't want to use that same account.

He wanted to do his own thing which

we're like that's fine you know you can pay rent how you what is the rent what is it

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