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Date Yourself Instead

How to de-center a man and DETACH - you are a GODDESS.

Date Yourself Instead

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 November 2024

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

If you're seeing this right now, it's for a reason. I spent most of my life putting relationships and men as the center of my universe, my world, and bending over backwards to make things work out with a person...only to leave myself drained and feeling discarded. In this episode, I dive into why you should de-center a man and detach, and how it truly makes you the most powerful person in the room. Bali is a VIBE. ;)

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-Lyss

Transcript

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0:00.0

Do not become the woman of anyone's dreams.

0:03.0

Become the woman of your dreams.

0:06.0

Become the person you've always wanted to be for you.

0:10.0

It is time to show up for you and your higher self.

0:14.0

Who does that higher self want you to be?

0:16.0

That is the only person you should be trying to impress.

0:19.0

You should never be bending over backwards to try to impress someone else, to try to please

0:24.6

a man, to try to make a man the center of your world in order to get him to love you or to

0:30.0

validate you or to be with you and to date you and commit to you.

0:34.6

You should never have to go out of your way so feverishly and so intensely with all of

0:42.0

your energy and all of your heart and soul in order to get someone to want to be with you or in order

0:47.4

to get someone to see your value or your worth. That is no way to live. Giving your energy and

0:53.8

attention and precious love and everything you have to offer in your heart and soul to a man that is giving you the absolute bare, fucking minimum.

1:04.7

Being here in Bali has taught me so many valuable life lessons, and when it comes to relationships, the most important thing I've

1:11.7

taken away so far is nurturing the relationship with you and your higher self. Knowing who you

1:18.0

want to be and how you want to show up every single day and working towards that version of you.

1:24.2

Decenter the men. Decenter the people that you have made so fucking important.

1:30.3

The most important person in this lifetime to you should be you,

1:35.3

nurturing you in your soul, nurturing you and your higher self,

1:40.3

and where you want to go and where you want to be in a week from now, a month from now, and a year from now.

1:46.0

It is time to prioritize you. You are the center of your own reality.

1:51.0

You are the center of your own world.

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