How to Date Tons of Chicks at Once (And Be a Good Person While Doing it)
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 10 February 2026
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
In this candid throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing tackles a question most dating coaches avoid: Is it possible to date multiple women without being immoral, manipulative, or breaking hearts? If you've ever felt guilty building attraction, worried about "leading women on," or struggled to balance abundance with integrity, this episode delivers a grounded, principled framework for doing it the right way.
Drawing from real coaching experience and a listener email, Mark explains how to approach dating from a go-giver mindset, set honest expectations, avoid false promises, and understand where heartbreak actually comes from. You'll learn how to practice dating skills, build attraction, and filter for a high-quality partner, without lying, using women, or compromising your moral compass.
Key Takeaways:
- Why seduction is a skill, and how to build it ethically
- The difference between giving value vs. "taking" from women
- How to date with abundance while staying grounded and honest
- How honesty can prevent heartbreak
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:00:45] – Quantity leads to quality: why abundance matters
[00:02:40] – Bret's email
[00:03:40] – The go-giver mindset vs. being a taker
[00:08:12] – Example value-packed texts and gambits you can use
[00:11:00] – How to break it off without hurting her
[00:12:44] – Taking numbers and dates without false intent
[00:14:12] – When sex creates emotional bonding
[00:14:40] – The rule for sleeping with only one woman at a time
[00:18:00] – The drop rule
[00:21:40] – Episode Outro
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | If you take her phone number and you know that you're not going to make her your girlfriend, |
| 0:05.0 | you know you're probably not going to even touch her beyond her hand when you shake it, |
| 0:09.0 | is that taking something from her? |
| 0:11.0 | I don't believe it is. |
| 0:13.0 | Reason being is I go into the interaction, always thinking to myself, |
| 0:17.0 | how can I lift this girl up? |
| 0:19.0 | What can I teach her? What can I bring to her? |
| 0:22.1 | Can I show her a good time? Can I be the dude who brings her to that next level of her |
| 0:27.8 | evolution of her consciousness? That's always what I'm thinking. |
| 0:31.8 | The Unapologetic Man Podcast. What is up your champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP, the |
| 0:39.8 | Uniform Mike Papa, the Unapologetic Man podcast. And today, gentlemen, we are going to talk about |
| 0:45.4 | can you date a bunch of girls without breaking their hearts? Because you know, me as a dating |
| 0:50.3 | coach tells you that you need to date as many women as possible. This is a skill set. |
| 0:56.3 | If you're looking for your wife, I'm going to tell you this. From quantity comes quality. |
| 1:01.4 | You have to develop the skill set. And the only way to do that is to talk to as many girls as possible. |
| 1:07.3 | And yes, even date as many girls as possible. |
| 1:13.7 | Even those who you know will not make the cut. |
| 1:16.2 | As my friend used to say during our childhood, |
| 1:20.4 | she's like a moped, fun to ride, but you don't want to be seen with her. |
| 1:24.3 | And I know for a lot of you guys, that's a situation where you meet a girl and you're like, |
| 1:25.7 | yeah, she's kind of cute. |
| 1:28.0 | She's got maybe a nice ass and some nice tits, but I just know that the second I hit it, I'm going to be over it. I just know it. And you feel |
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