Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast.

The only podcast that's all about self-improvement,

confidence, success, money, women, and being a fucking man without making any apologies for it.

I'm your host, John Anthony, and I'm Mark Singh.

And today we're going to be talking about how to get over the fear of rejection.

So this is something that a lot of guys encounter in life, but especially in games.

So the thing that you guys will realize is that women are a microcosm of the universe.

So in other words, anything that you're mildly afraid of in life is going to

translate itself into your fears with women times a hundred. So a lot of guys when they approach a girl, if they do approach a girl to begin with, most don't. But if they're thinking about it, the first thought that comes to their mind is what's going to go wrong? What if goes wrong what if everyone sees me and I look

like a fucking idiot okay and so today we're gonna talk about how to get over that so

first things first we have to address the core focus of what is motivating you.

Okay so there's two kinds of motivations. There's a way from motivation and

there's towards motivation and most people operate based out of away from motivation.

You know, they wake up in the morning and go to their job and you ask them why and they say,

because I don't want to get fired.

When you ask them, you know, why do you work so hard? They say, because I don't want to get fired. When you ask them, you know, why do you work so hard?

They say, because I don't want to be homeless.

I don't want to be poor.

Why do you, you know, go to the gym?

Because I don't want to be fat.

Why do you, you know, stop eating that don't don't want to be fat. Why do you stop eating that donuts? Because I don't want to be fat. I don't

want to die of heart disease. Why don't you approach that girl? Because I don't want her to

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