How To Clean Up Your Feed After a Breakup

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Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 6 August 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Jared and Jordana unpack the dos and don’ts of dating in the age of social media. Jared explains why unfollowing your ex immediately after a breakup is a crucial act of self-care and shares the three things you need to consider when managing your breakup posts online. They talk about the subtle ways we use stories to check if someone’s watching and break down which ex photos to keep, edit, or delete to protect your new dating life. We also discuss a listener's question, do you need permission to follow you best friend's new boyfriend? It's a social media themed episode, be sure to listen and take notes! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast.
0:05.0	I'm Jordana Abraham.
0:06.1	And I am Jared Fried.
0:07.1	It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana.
0:09.1	How are you?
0:10.0	What's going on?
0:10.9	We are deep into summer.
0:13.4	It is August.
0:15.2	It is hot.
0:16.7	It's sticky.
0:18.1	Yes.
0:18.8	You're going to Portugal.
0:20.4	I'm going to Portugal and Ib, and Abiza. Abiza. And
0:24.3	Portugal. Ibiza and Portugal. Abiza with a big group. Okay. Love that. And then Portugal, just Mike.
0:30.7	So a little high, low moment, a little, you know, not high low, but like, uh, you know, a taste of everything.
0:36.4	The group and the romantic and all that. Love it. Yes. And I am, I have just, August, Wednesday, August 6th, I have just finished hosting my entire family for about 10 days. 10 days. Everyone who doesn't live in New York is coming in, staying with me. I had no idea this was happening. Yes. Well, it's over by now. What prompted this? So 10 days, you're like, I'm opening up the mansion. Yes. Come stay with me. Is this like the house opening official? Kind of for the summer. For the pool. Yeah. Well, I have, so I have two of my siblings and their families coming from Dr. Naomi and my brother Josh. So Dr. Naomi and Josh is one of
1:13.0	the twins. Yes. They're the Texas people. Yes. And so Texas summer is like brutal. So they like to leave.
1:20.3	And New York is like considered like a reprieve from that. Because it's not as hot. It's not like in the hundreds.
1:26.2	Right. Right. Right. Right. So this happens a lot with when you have a lot of siblings and like you're in the younger set. People just kind of like tell you what you're doing. So they were like, six months ago they were like, Drodana, you're going to host the annual family like pool party, right? Is this a thing? They're like trying to make it a thing. They're trying.
1:45.2	And is it just siblings? And then I don't know.
1:45.8	They just kept saying it enough times that I was like, I guess I am. Right. And now they're all coming in. So those two with their families and then my brother John and lives in San Francisco also staying with me. Great. So it's going to be a full house. And the other sisters, are they coming?
1:43.4	Yeah, but they're in New York.
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