How to CHOOSE A Partner Wisely, Select The Right Relationship & Find HAPPINESS

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Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 2 February 2022

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Choosing the right person to date can be a high-stress situation for most of us. The choice is even more difficult when you begin to think about all of your previous choices and wonder if you can even trust your judgment anymore. Have you ever wondered how is it that you seem to attract not one, not two, but every wrong person possible? Does the madness ever end? This episode is dedicated to a few basic strategies and ideas worth learning about and practicing so that you can stop attracting the wrong person to your life and start picking the right partner for you. Spirit, the relationship therapist, and Matthew Hussey are united in wisdom for a masterclass on not just how to date better, but also how to make better choices and get out of the wrong situations even faster. SHOW NOTES: Are you compatible | Spirit reveals truth about aligning with your partner [0:25] Dating Rules | Tips for dating potential life partners [5:18] Solving Relationship Problems | The healthy way to solve relationship problems [11:44] Ask Hard Questions | Knowing the truth is better than wondering [19:25] Check out our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Follow Spirit: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/ Follow Matthew Hussey: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:24.5	We're just simply reenacting the same patterns over and over from our past.
0:31.1	Do I actually want this person? Is this the right person for a relationship?
0:36.5	And all of a sudden, if we're not careful and we don't know what that is, we go,
0:40.2	eh, this relationship has lost its fire.
0:47.2	And it's important, too.
0:52.8	And the reason for that is because oftentimes people are afraid as chemistry changes, they're
0:58.8	afraid and they mistake the chemistry changing for them falling out of love.
1:05.0	Okay?
1:06.0	So what happens is when we first have initial chemistry, we call it NRE, which stands for new relationship energy.
1:12.8	When we have new relationship energy with somebody that we first start dating, it's everything
1:18.2	is incredible. Everything is amazing and intense. And our bodies literally respond to that chemistry.
1:25.1	We have more dopamine flowing in our bodies, more adrenaline flowing.
1:29.7	It's literally a chemical process that allows us to feel what feels like love, but it actually
1:35.6	is lust, right? So just like you said, it's the thing that really makes our heartbeat faster.
1:41.2	It makes our palms sweaty. It makes our pupils dilate, the thing that gives
1:45.5	us butterflies in our stomach when we're talking about or see the person. And so that actually
1:51.2	lasts roughly for about 18 to 24 months. And just as you said, for the exact reason, it's all about
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