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๐๏ธ 21 August 2025
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You were supposed to be a whole new person by now. Sun-kissed and emotionally regulated. Inbox at zero.
But here we are—still tired, still trying, still wondering if change is even possible. In this episode, I reflect on the seasons when we ache to become someone else. Someone better and explore the ancient idea of virtue—especially the least sexy one, prudence—as a compass for who we’re becoming and how.
Rooted in Christian theology, this episode is for the slow changers. The late bloomers. The people choosing one small, faithful step instead of a total overhaul.
Plus, it includes a blessing for anyone who’s trying to change... but not overnight.
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| 0:00.0 | This episode is brought to you by Lily Endowment as part of our series on Christian spirituality. |
| 0:05.3 | And it's just a chance to have a moment to reflect on life and faith in the service of knowing and loving God. |
| 0:16.1 | Hey friends, it's Kate, your friendly neighborhood cultural mythbuster. |
| 0:25.8 | Oh, yes, it's that time of year. Back to school. New start energy where it feels like everyone is turning into a better version of themselves. It's like January. but with the added pressure of locating lunch boxes and no champagne |
| 0:41.1 | toast. |
| 0:42.5 | The stores are packed with shiny new planners and color-coded to-do lists that whisper, |
| 0:46.8 | This is the year. |
| 0:48.2 | You finally get your act together. |
| 0:50.2 | I promise. |
| 0:52.6 | I fall for it every time. |
| 0:55.8 | Maybe you've said it to yourself too. |
| 0:58.2 | I thought summer would fix me. |
| 1:00.6 | I'll be more rested, more zen, more magically able to juggle everything on my schedule. |
| 1:06.4 | But then, here I am. |
| 1:09.1 | Slightly more sun-damaged and really behind on email. But the same me. We love a good |
| 1:19.8 | transformation story though, don't we? We binge the podcasts. We ordered the supplements. We Google |
| 1:25.5 | how to become a morning person, like it's an emergency. |
| 1:30.2 | But what does it actually take to become someone new? How much change is actually possible this year? |
| 1:37.2 | And what does that look like for people with, I don't know, actual lives, jobs, kids, obligations, anxiety, Amazon returns. A lot of anxiety about my Amazon |
| 1:48.5 | returns. These are the questions that animate all of my work as a cultural historian. I study what |
| 1:54.8 | people believe about themselves and what those beliefs make possible or impossible, especially when it comes to change. |
| 2:03.0 | Are we the captains of our fate, masters of our blah, blah? Are we just ready to turn it all |
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