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Slay Girl Slay

How to Build Confidence Nobody Can Take From You

Slay Girl Slay

Ashley Leggs

Education, Self-improvement

4.92.9K Ratings

🗓️ 9 March 2026

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

Real confidence isn't something you borrow from other people's opinions — it's something you build by keeping promises to yourself. In this episode Ashley breaks down why external validation is fragile, and how self trust is the quiet foundation that holds everything else up. We're getting into the daily habits, the honest self audit, and the mindset shift that changes everything. Today’s Sponsors: Try BetterHelp and get 10% off your first month using our code ⁠⁠SLAY⁠⁠. Try Shopify using our code ⁠SLAY⁠. Stop paying more than you have to for wireless at ⁠mintmobile.com/slaypod⁠. Join Us on Substack: Start your week with ⁠Happy Monday!⁠ Our weekly letter full of inspiration, motivation, and tools to help you slay your goals.  Follow Us: ⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠ ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook⁠ If you’d like to help keep the Slay Girl Slay podcast going, ⁠you can ⁠donate here⁠⁠. Every contribution makes a difference. Slay Girl Slay podcast is an AshMedia production, hosted by ⁠⁠Ashley Leggs⁠.⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Slay Girl Slay podcast, a space designed to uplift, to motivate, and to inspire you,

0:08.5

to be fearless in the pursuit of your dreams, go after what you deserve, and show up as your

0:15.5

most unapologetic, most authentic self. This audio series was created for every woman who's on the verge of her come-up.

0:23.7

She's creating her own vibe and fiercely transforming her life. So sit down with me, get your notebook,

0:31.4

grab a pen, and let's create the life that you've always dreamed of. I'm your host, Ashley Legs, and this is the Slay Girl

0:40.8

Slee podcast. Hey, girl, hey, welcome back to the Sleigh Girl Slave podcast. It is a new week.

0:53.7

These weeks are flying, y'all. How it's sitting mid-March is beyond me.

0:58.4

But here we are. I hope you all had a wonderful weekend. This coming weekend here in Chicago,

1:04.1

the city is celebrating St. Patrick's Day. I'm not sure if you guys are on socials, have seen

1:08.8

the city on St. Patrick's Day or you live here and you know

1:12.0

how we get down. But it is easily, hands down, one of the most fun days of the year. They turn

1:17.5

the river green and there's a marathon, but the bars open super early. And when I say everyone and

1:23.9

their mama is outside, everybody is outside. It is packed from sea to shining sea.

1:31.8

It doesn't matter if you're not a lick of Irish either. In Chicago, you are shyish and you are

1:38.1

outside. In your green and white from sun up to sundown. I'm not really a big drinker to

1:43.7

begin with and especially as of late, I'm not really a big drinker to begin with, and especially as of late,

1:46.1

I'm not a drinker like at all. Y'all, I haven't had a glass of anything since like December 1st,

1:52.4

but I had a lot of health stuff going on, right? This will be my first completely sober St. Patrick's Day,

2:00.8

and when I say that out loud, it kind of sounds

2:03.2

boring already. But I'm still excited. My friends, we all really get into it. And if you are in

2:11.4

the city celebrating or in other city celebrating, please take care of yourselves. By the time this

2:17.3

episode airs,

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