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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

How To Become Powerful & Seduce Women - Effortlessly Attract Charisma & Respect | Matthew Hussey PT 1

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 April 2024

⏱️ 110 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to another power-packed episode of Impact Theory, I’m Tom Bilyeu!  In today’s episode, Matthew Hussey and I are taking a deep dive into romantic relationships and how to most effectively navigate the challenging, high-stakes dating game in 2024.  From THE pill to the red pill, dating apps, crumbling gender norms, social media, weed, porn, aimlessness – all of it together is a disastrous cocktail.  And the volume and velocity of terrible, complex dating advice on the internet is astonishing, given there is a hilariously simple path to seduction and success in finding a real, lasting partnership. Here to unpack the complexities of modern relationships is New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and world-leading dating coach, Matthew Hussey. Check out his latest book, “Love Life”, out now at https://lovelifebook.com. In this interview, we touch on:  - stories men tell themselves about why women aren’t interested in them - the red pill advice driving men crazy - the search for empathy and acceptance in relationships - challenges of modern dating culture - the importance of healing from past traumas  - embracing individuality and charisma - the impact of vulnerability in attraction Through personal stories, both Matthew and I open up about our experiences with vulnerability in our relationships and the profound impact of being fully seen and accepted. Buckle up for an episode that promises to not only challenge your perspectives but offer tangible advice on navigating the evolving landscape of love and relationships.  This is just Part 1 of our conversation, so make sure you don’t miss Part 2 of this convo for even more insights from Matthew Hussey. Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Tom Bilyeu:  Website: https://impacttheoryuniversity.com/  X: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/tombilyeu Themes: Mindset, Finance, World Affairs, Health & Productivity, Future & Tech, Simulation Theory & Physics, Dating & Relationships SPONSORS: Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/impact  Go to https://go.lumen.me/impact and get $50 off your Lumen!  Use this link and Hartford Gold will give you up to $15,000 dollars of FREE silver on your first qualifying: order.offers.americanhartfordgold.com/content-affiliate/?&leadsource=affiliate&utm_sfcampaign=701Rb000009EnmrIAC Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://drinkag1.com/impact. Secure your digital life with proactive protection for your assets, identity, family, and tech – Go to https://aura.com/IMPACT to start your free two-week trial. Take control of your gut health by going to https://tryviome.com/impact and use code IMPACT to get 20% off your first 3 months and free shipping. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, Tom AMAs, and so much more!* This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Modern life is conspiring to ruin your romantic relationships.

0:04.3

From the pill to the red pill, dating apps, crumbling gender norms, social media, weed porn, aimlessness.

0:11.7

All of it together is a disastrous cocktail.

0:14.3

Like there are really goofy-ass people in the red pill community.

0:20.2

The people saying these things haven't spent enough time around women.

0:25.5

There really is a simple path to sexual success and success in finding a real lasting partnership.

0:32.1

Here to talk about it is relationship expert and massive YouTuber Matthew Hussey.

0:38.4

The volume and velocity of terrible dating advice that I see the internet giving men is

0:44.9

astonishing. What do you think men are getting wrong about the game of seduction?

0:51.1

When I think of what men are getting wrong, I see a lot of anger that I find

0:58.3

concerning. What do you think it's driving that? It's almost a combination of, there's like a sense

1:03.9

of entitlement, I think, to it of I should be able to have this, but I'm not able to have that.

1:10.6

And there's also discrepancy between what

1:13.5

people, you know, let's say what women are saying they want versus what they go for, which I think

1:19.3

pains a lot of people to see and creates a lot of cynicism. This idea that I'm not wanted for this version of myself, but I'm wanted when I'm a more

1:32.8

aggressive or worse version of myself, when I hit a certain age or when they hit a certain age,

1:39.2

I am suddenly visible in a way that I wasn't before, But am I visible for reasons that I think are good?

1:49.0

Or am I now visible because this person's coming from a place of scarcity or they now want

1:56.8

safety and I represent safety, but I resent representing safety because I want to be wanted

2:04.4

for the same reasons you wanted that person over there, but I'm not seen that way. So I think

2:10.5

there's a lot, there's a lot of guys who feel steamrolled. You know, they what? Like they gave their

2:16.6

best to someone or something or really tried

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