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How to become obsessed with yourself

LYSS

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.6K Ratings

🗓️ 1 June 2026

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

This episode is about reconnecting with yourself so deeply that you stop chasing validation, attention, and people who were never aligned in the first place. I talk about the importance of s understanding your values, passions, habits, goals, and what genuinely makes you happy so you can create a life that feels authentic instead of performative.

I also talk about cutting off draining energy, setting stronger boundaries, and why some people don’t deserve access to the new version of you. Plus: creating a more cinematic life, romanticizing your everyday moments, forgiving your past self, choosing emotionally available people, and building real confidence through self-trust and keeping promises to yourself.

The more connected you become to yourself, the less you settle for crumbs.

LOTS OF LOVE xx

Lyss

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0:00.0

So how do you become obsessed with yourself and so in love with yourself that you literally wake up and you want to just hug yourself and you're like, I'm so lucky to be me.

0:09.5

You have to get intimate with who you are. You have to study who you are. The same way you would study your crush and be like, what do they like? Where are they from? How many sisters do they have?

0:19.0

You have to study you and make you the priority and not make

0:22.9

anyone else the priority for now. Okay. And obviously if you want to get into a relationship

0:26.8

and you want to get to know someone amazing, but you want to get to know yourself the best first.

0:31.9

That's how you attract the right people into your life because once you become so intimate with

0:35.5

who you are and really understand your brain and how it works, then you'll start aligning yourself with the right people. It'll just happen naturally. When was the last time you actually studied yourself and got to know yourself at a very intimate level? Do you truly know what makes you happy? What you're looking for? What excites you? What lights you up? Where you want to live, where you want to work, who you

0:54.3

want to be, how much money you want to make. You have to get so honest with yourself and really

0:58.8

ask yourself these detailed questions and be so certain about these questions. You have to know

1:04.8

who you are. When someone asks you who you are, you have to feel so confident in your aura and

1:10.2

in your energy that you're like,

1:11.3

I am this. I am Liss, right? I am Liss. I have a podcast. I love to help people heal and grow and

1:17.9

expand their consciousness. I love to make people feel powerful and know their worth. I love to

1:22.4

write. I love to sing. I love to perform. I love to create. I'm a woman of creation. I love to travel. I can't wait to

1:29.3

be married and have a family one day. I love learning about different cultures. I love trying

1:33.5

different foods. I love spicy food. I love dogs. I love animals. I used to horseback ride. I love

1:39.1

singing. I love pop music. I love songwriting. I used to sing opera for many years of my life.

1:44.0

I just have so many different facets about me, right? And I know that I want certain things because I've studied myself. I've studied my passions. I've studied what I like, what I don't like, who I like, who I don't like, where I want to go, my next five-year game plan. I have a lot on my plate and a lot to do and a lot to accomplish

2:01.5

and figure out, but I have a direction. I know where the fuck I'm going. I know what I want out of my life. I know I want to build a beautiful, adventurous, creative, amazing, abundant life with the love of my life. Okay. That's the goal. That's the dream, at least for me. So get clear on what you want. Write it down. Journal about it. Think about it. Obsess over it. Replay it in your mind. Make a vision board. Journal. Speak it into existence. Tell yourself what you want. Ask yourself these questions. And really get clear. Get that clarity on who you are and who you're destined to become. It is so important

2:35.3

in getting to know every single piece of yourself and what you want and what's going to make you

2:39.1

happy and what doesn't make you so happy. What makes your spirit feel alive and come to life? What makes

2:45.1

you want to get out of bed in the morning? What fuels you? What foods light you up and make you feel

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