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Hey guys, welcome back to We Men at Acme. So today we have a really great guest and

I'm really excited for you to hear him. He's got some awesome

affirmations. So I feel like by the time you're done listening to this episode you're going to be

feeling really good about yourself. You're going to know how to talk to yourself and how to

just be positive and you know the things to say when you're caught up in the heat of the moment

etc. So we'll get to him very shortly but before that there were a few things that you wanted me

to address and talk about. The first was if their family's not as well off as yours or vice versa.

You know this it shouldn't be an issue but I do find that it is and I don't mean that it's an

issue and that like you know someone should have the same amount of money as you or you know if

someone has more than you it's intimidating to know none of that just about understanding where

each other comes from and understanding what people like to spend money on. So for example

let's say that I'm dating someone that has a lot more money than I do. I wouldn't understand

what money means to them if that makes any sense you know like and they wouldn't understand what

money means to me. We would just have different views on how we handle our own money because we weren't

raised in the same way when it comes to money and I know that sounds confusing but like I'll give you

an example like but say the opposite right let's say I had more money than my partner. Then my

partner might not understand why you know I want to go to a nice hotel because it's not something

they are accustomed to and instead they'd want to when they travel maybe spend less money.

You know these things sound trivial but they can add up when you are finding a life partner

you want to have the same views on things like you want someone who grew up in a similar way so

that if let's say I want to send my kid to camp the partner would understand that that's a cost

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