How to be mysterious and make space when you are living together.

Well, you've got to have your hobbies and interests.

And what typically happens in long-term relationships, the longer people are together, the guy,

the guy stops working out.

Over five, ten years, he's gained a couple pounds a year.

And after a decade's gone by, he's blown out several pants sizes, several belt sizes.

Shirts are baggy.

So he doesn't look as good.

His hair starts falling out.

He just kind of looks like a slob.

And so he's not acting attractive anymore.

He's not looking attractive. He's not looking attractive he doesn't feel

attractive people just tend to let themselves go what was the question again how

how to be mysterious and make space when you are living together so the point being is

don't let yourself go.

Don't lose yourself.

Continue to go to the gym.

Continue to focus on your mission and purpose.

Continue to try to increase your value proposition.

Grow your reserve of knowledge.

Develop your gifts, your skills, and your talents so you can earn more money and get the BBD, the bigger

better deal, the bigger car, especially if you have kids and a family, that gets expensive,

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