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How To Be Less Anxious and More Useful in a Chaotic World | Oren Jay Sofer

10% Happier with Dan Harris

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Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.612.9K Ratings

🗓️ 29 November 2023

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

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Buddhist strategies for navigating tumult— and even becoming a node of sanity amidst it all.


Oren Jay Sofer teaches meditation and communication internationally and has practiced Buddhist meditation since 1997. He holds a degree in comparative religion from Columbia University and is a Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner for the healing of trauma. Born and raised in New Jersey, he is the author of several books, including the best-seller Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication as well as his newest book, Your Heart Was Made for This: Contemplative Practices for Meeting a World in Crisis with Courage, Integrity, and Love.



In this episode we talk about:

  • 26 qualities for both navigating and positively impacting a chaotic world
  • What inspired the title of his newest book 
  • Why the cultivation of attention and aspiration can be transformative tools
  • How mindfulness isn't just about feeling good
  • Why joy can help us to persevere through challenges 
  • And How to reframe the concept of devotion so that it can apply to your everyday life



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0:00.0

It's the 10% happier podcast. I'm talking about the news but also the

0:25.9

nature of our own little worlds often, our own interpersonal dramas and then of

0:31.0

course there's the tumultuous nature of our own inner landscapes, all of the

0:35.6

intracranial chaos, both reacting to and feeding the chaos around us.

0:43.0

Today we're going to talk to a renowned Buddhist teacher

0:45.4

about how to be less anxious and more useful

0:48.6

in the face of the various dumpster fires

0:51.3

raging in the world both externally and internally.

0:55.0

Orange-J-Saufer has been practicing meditation since 1997.

0:59.0

He's also developed a fascinating sub-specialty in mindful communication skills that I've

1:04.4

personally found to be extremely powerful. He's got a new book called Your Heart

1:08.5

was made for this which lays out 26 qualities many of them inspired by Buddhism for both navigating and positively impacting

1:17.1

a chaotic world from managing how you interact with media to the role of expectations to the simple power of

1:24.2

mindfulness. We also talk about aspiration as a powerful tool, how joy even though it

1:29.4

may sound a little sacrant can help you persevere and this is interesting how to reframe the concept of

1:36.1

devotion which might not go down easy for some of you so that it can apply to your everyday life.

1:45.0

Time for BSP, blatant self-promotion.

1:48.0

I want to remind you, I just started a new newsletter.

1:50.8

This is kind of an experiment and admittedly I'm many years late to the newsletter game

1:55.9

but I would love if you would sign up. We've put a link in the show notes.

2:00.3

Also over on the 10% happier app, a reminder that we've got more than 500 guided meditations and

2:07.5

courses from some of the best teachers in the world if you want to navigate the holiday season with a little bit more sanity.

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