How To Be Less Anxious and More Useful in a Chaotic World | Oren Jay Sofer
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🗓️ 29 November 2023
⏱️ 71 minutes
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Buddhist strategies for navigating tumult— and even becoming a node of sanity amidst it all.
Oren Jay Sofer teaches meditation and communication internationally and has practiced Buddhist meditation since 1997. He holds a degree in comparative religion from Columbia University and is a Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner for the healing of trauma. Born and raised in New Jersey, he is the author of several books, including the best-seller Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication as well as his newest book, Your Heart Was Made for This: Contemplative Practices for Meeting a World in Crisis with Courage, Integrity, and Love.
In this episode we talk about:
- 26 qualities for both navigating and positively impacting a chaotic world
- What inspired the title of his newest book
- Why the cultivation of attention and aspiration can be transformative tools
- How mindfulness isn't just about feeling good
- Why joy can help us to persevere through challenges
- And How to reframe the concept of devotion so that it can apply to your everyday life
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- Oren Jay Sofer, Practicing Mindful Communication
- Why Buddhism Is Inherently Hopeful (Despite All the Talk of Suffering)
- Rethinking Your Relationship to 'Stuff' | The Minimalists + Oren Jay Sofer
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| 0:00.0 | It's the 10% happier podcast. I'm talking about the news but also the |
| 0:25.9 | nature of our own little worlds often, our own interpersonal dramas and then of |
| 0:31.0 | course there's the tumultuous nature of our own inner landscapes, all of the |
| 0:35.6 | intracranial chaos, both reacting to and feeding the chaos around us. |
| 0:43.0 | Today we're going to talk to a renowned Buddhist teacher |
| 0:45.4 | about how to be less anxious and more useful |
| 0:48.6 | in the face of the various dumpster fires |
| 0:51.3 | raging in the world both externally and internally. |
| 0:55.0 | Orange-J-Saufer has been practicing meditation since 1997. |
| 0:59.0 | He's also developed a fascinating sub-specialty in mindful communication skills that I've |
| 1:04.4 | personally found to be extremely powerful. He's got a new book called Your Heart |
| 1:08.5 | was made for this which lays out 26 qualities many of them inspired by Buddhism for both navigating and positively impacting |
| 1:17.1 | a chaotic world from managing how you interact with media to the role of expectations to the simple power of |
| 1:24.2 | mindfulness. We also talk about aspiration as a powerful tool, how joy even though it |
| 1:29.4 | may sound a little sacrant can help you persevere and this is interesting how to reframe the concept of |
| 1:36.1 | devotion which might not go down easy for some of you so that it can apply to your everyday life. |
| 1:45.0 | Time for BSP, blatant self-promotion. |
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| 1:55.9 | but I would love if you would sign up. We've put a link in the show notes. |
| 2:00.3 | Also over on the 10% happier app, a reminder that we've got more than 500 guided meditations and |
| 2:07.5 | courses from some of the best teachers in the world if you want to navigate the holiday season with a little bit more sanity. |
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