How to be Dateable
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 28 January 2025
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, 'How to Be Dateable.' They delve into the importance of vulnerability, self-knowledge, and authenticity in modern dating, addressing the traps of contemporary dating culture such as the 'settling paradox' and 'relationship chicken.' They emphasize the significance of showing up and being intentional with one's energy in dating, and how true connection can be achieved by leading with curiosity and honesty. The episode highlights practical advice on overcoming common dating pitfalls, maintaining self-growth, and ensuring one's needs are communicated and met within a relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing |
| 0:14.9 | their stories. Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even |
| 0:20.3 | cry along with us as we navigate the dating |
| 0:22.3 | scene together. The reunion that we so desperately need, I'm so excited to welcome back Julie |
| 0:29.2 | Kraftchik and you as you to seeing other people. Julie and UA, welcome. Oh my God, we've missed you |
| 0:34.4 | so much. We have. It's so much has happened since the last time we've happened. |
| 0:38.6 | It's been way too long. |
| 0:39.8 | I think the number one thing that has happened is this physical, literal book right here, how to be dateable. |
| 0:48.9 | Guys, if you don't know Julie and UA, they are the host of the podcast, Datable. |
| 0:52.9 | They've been on seeing other people before. |
| 0:55.2 | I have always respected the hell out of everything that they put out there. They are incredible. |
| 1:01.7 | If you haven't listened to Datable, listen to Datable. But more importantly, we have How to Be Datable out now. |
| 1:07.6 | Yeah. Wherever Books are sold. |
| 1:09.3 | Wherever books are sold. You got married and we had a baby, so it's kind of the same thing. |
| 1:15.0 | It is. |
| 1:16.1 | So much has happened. |
| 1:18.3 | I said right before we got on, I think that anybody could get married if they really wanted to, but not everybody could write a book. |
| 1:25.5 | You know, I stand by that. |
| 1:28.0 | I agree in some ways, but finding the right relationship is hard, which is why we wrote |
| 1:32.8 | a book. |
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