How To Be Confident Breaking Up Was The Right Decision ft. Caroline Stanbury

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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 8 August 2021

⏱️ 53 minutes

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In this episode, I am virtually joined by the beautiful and ageless Caroline Stanbury. Caroline was a cast member on the Bravo show Ladies of London, and is now the host of fellow Dear Media podcast Divorced Not Dead. We discuss her marriage ending, why it's so hard to leave a partner, signs that make it clear that you're making the right decision in breaking up, how she met her younger man, why “if he wanted to he would” is so true, if Caro- line would be a real housewife, why she'll get a prenup with her fiancé, the importance of sex in a relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss a few poll questions from this week, running into an ex or someone who ghosted you, how to avoid romanticizing every person you vibe with, breaking up with a therapist, how to not feel like something is wrong with you if you haven’t met someone, and having a crush on someone else when in a relationship.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.2	Hey guys, welcome back to We Met Arachni. I can't believe it's August. I know last episode was
0:11.8	also August, but I'm just like shook and I know people are feeling weird and like funky, you know,
0:18.4	in a funk about the summer ending and I'm right there with you. It feels like every time it's the
0:25.3	summer, it's a week long. And maybe that's like an East Coast thing because we only get, you
0:30.7	know, this kind of weather for so long, but it is just flying. And I can't believe it. Today we
0:37.0	have an amazing episode with the legendary Caroline Standbury. And she is so gorgeous. And I've
0:44.4	been obsessed with her since ladies of London. So this was a really cool thing for me to be able
0:49.7	to interview her. I also went on Caroline's podcast to force not dead. So go check out our episode
0:55.8	as well. But before we get into that, I'm going to answer a few of your questions from this week's
1:00.3	solo. A few of them are touching upon the poll questions from this week. So that's like the first
1:06.4	three. So we'll get into this first date. And after 20 minutes, the guy says he's not vibing,
1:12.4	pays, and leaves is that rude or mature. We asked this as a poll this week. And most people
1:18.8	thought it was rude. And at first, I was like, you know what? I respect that. Like good for him.
1:23.8	You know, if a girl did that, it would be good for her. But I think that there is kind of an
1:31.7	unspoken rule that even if you're not vibing, you see the date through. Like it's just not nice
1:38.8	to do to someone. You have to consider someone else's feelings when you're acting that way.
1:43.6	And it's just not the right thing to do. And I actually, someone sent me a TikTok
1:48.0	with a girl crying saying that somebody did that to her. And it really hurt her feelings. And
1:54.0	she said she was like, please just like just finish the date. Like don't make me feel horrible
2:00.6	about myself. And I agree. Like how bad can somebody be that you need to get up after 20 minutes?
2:08.0	Not that bad, right? Like unless they're saying something like disgustingly misogynistic or
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