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How to be an upstander instead of a bystander | Angélique Parisot-Potter

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4.111.9K Ratings

🗓️ 14 December 2020

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

If you see something wrong in the workplace, what should you do? Business leader Angélique Parisot-Potter says you should speak up, even when it's scary. Sharing her personal experience of voicing concerns at work, she offers three lessons on standing up for what's right.

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0:00.0

I'm Elise Hugh with TED Talks Daily.

0:05.7

In today's talk, we hear an important lesson about standing up for our own values and speaking up in the workplace, even in the face of threatening authority.

0:15.6

In her talk at TED Women 2020, business leader Angelique Parasot Potter encourages us to be fearless and reminds us how.

0:25.9

Let me tell you a story where you'll meet the characters who I'll call Bilal and Brenda.

0:33.3

I was working in a most remarkable part of the world and one unremarkable morning, a colleague came to see me.

0:42.0

She told me that Bilal, one of our senior executives, had been telling everyone I was being removed

0:48.8

because I'd been messing with the wrong people, and now I was going to face the consequences.

0:55.2

I wasn't alarmed, because I knew I had been messing with the wrong people, and now I was going to face the consequences. I wasn't alarmed, because I knew I had done what I'd been hired to do.

1:00.9

My job.

1:02.6

Dealing with thorny issues head on and leaving no stone unturned.

1:08.0

In fact, in the months prior to this, we'd overturned more than just a few stones. Those

1:14.0

details are for another time. I called my husband James to tell him about this bizarre conversation.

1:22.6

And with what proved to be great foresight, he said, Anjolique, pack your things and call Brenda, in that order.

1:31.1

I called Brenda. I'd worked with her for a number of years, and I trusted her. She was a person

1:37.8

who'd recommended me for that job. I cut to the chase because my husband's reaction made me realize this was more than just the usual stuff I'd encountered before.

1:49.5

And I say usual, but in that moment of clarity, it dawned on me what James had already recognized.

1:58.3

None of this was usual.

2:05.3

These irregularities, part of a pattern I'd fail to notice,

2:12.3

were what I now know as open secrets, living beneath those proverbial stones I'd had the audacity to overturn. To my shock, I learned that this was happening because I hadn't tried hard enough

2:21.0

to operate in the gray space. I didn't seem to know when to kick things into the long grass.

2:29.2

And I didn't understand that this was how the system worked.

2:37.9

The message, the implied threat, was clear.

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