Where's like that healthy balance of having your own hobby as well? Because I feel like I can have multiple hobbies that I'm doing by myself, like kickboxing or run club and roller skating. I do all these things by myself. You can kind of get used to that feeling of being on your own.

So where's that healthy balance?

Because some people might see it as, you know, I'm pretty happy on my own.

I'm doing these things on my own.

What do I need this other person for?

Well, that's important because you want somebody that improves the silence.

Because if you can get to a place in life where you really love your time alone and you really hang out, love hanging out by yourself, you love everybody that's in your life, but it sure is nice on a Saturday to be like, hey, I'm going to go rollerblade or I'm going to the run club or I'm going to, you know, go do something physical or whatever. I'm going to go to a yoga class.

It's like it's nice to be able to do those things.

And so if you're going to share your life with somebody else,

you want them to have similar goals and values,

and you want them to come along with you and do things that they also like doing

and you enjoy doing

them together that's where it's important to have similar goals similar values because if you

don't have similar goals and similar values then most of the time you're just not going to want to

be with that other person you're just happy to go do things on your own with your own people and

your own friends that's funny it's it's funny to me because a lot of people think that, like, you know, they're getting into

relationships because they think it's going to make them happier.

But in reality, if they look deep within and they find what truly makes them happy, that's the answer to all their problems.

Right.

Yeah, you need to get to a place where you're proud of yourself and proud of your life.

Because if you're not excited about your life, your girl's not going to be very excited about it.

And it's your enthusiasm and having a mission and a purpose that lights you up on the inside

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