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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

How to Appreciate The Partner You Have | E269

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

YAP Media Network | Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7890 Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2021

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

It's great to work on your relationship, but sometimes people can get so over-focused on relationship problems they stop appreciating their partner’s positive qualities... to the detriment of the dynamic. In contrast, feeling love and appreciation for your partner — as they are — is the royal road to growth and happiness for both of you.  When do you advocate for change? When do you lean into “appreciative acceptance?” That’s what we’re discussing on today’s episode!  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com

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0:00.0

This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the love, happiness, and success Podcast.

0:28.7

That is Jay Lind, with a song,

0:30.7

Anything and Everything,

0:31.5

as in,

0:33.7

tell me everything about you and let me love you unconditionally for all of it.

0:39.9

It's a beautiful song, It is a beautiful idea and it's one that can be hard to put into practice, can't it? So today we're talking about

0:47.0

how to appreciate the partner you have because we all want an easy, fulfilling relationship

0:54.1

that's full of light and love and fun.

0:56.9

And sometimes in our quest to create the kind of relationship that we really want,

1:03.1

it's easy to get focused on all the things about our partners that are not ideal.

1:09.0

And while it is true that we all need to work on ourselves

1:12.0

and grow in service of our relationships

1:14.8

and bring our best selves to the table,

1:17.4

it is also true that the royal road to a truly delightful relationship

1:22.8

is often less about getting people to change

1:26.5

than it is about figuring out how to accept,

1:31.2

appreciate, and even cherish our partners for who and what they actually are as they are.

1:39.1

So how do you find that balance between acceptance and unconditional love and also growth and people

1:47.6

being the best they can be? And how do you feel genuinely loving towards your partner as they are,

1:55.8

even if they are imperfect? This really is the holy grail of happy, healthy relationships. And creating exactly that

2:04.7

is what we're talking about today on the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast. So I'm so glad

2:10.4

you're here joining me for what I hope is going to be a fantastic conversation. And if this is your

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