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How to Address an Envelope to a Married Couple Minicast - 16 June 2008

A Way with Words - language, linguistics, and callers from all over

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🗓️ 16 June 2008

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

A San Diego woman is bothered by the convention of addressing envelopes to Mr. and Mrs. John Smith. Shouldn’t we also include the woman’s first name? For her, it’s more than just a theoretical question: she spends a lot of time sending thank-you letters for nonprofit fundraising. So she’s wondering, what’s the best way to address them so as not to offend potential donors? Her question provokes a lively exchange about grammar, etiquette, and feminism. Hear hundreds of free episodes and learn more on the A Way with Words website: https://waywordradio.org. Be a part of the show: call or text 1 (877) 929-9673 toll-free in the United States and Canada; elsewhere in the world, call or text +1 619 800 4443. Send voice notes or messages via WhatsApp 16198004443. Email words@waywordradio.org. Copyright Wayword, Inc., a 501(c)(3) corporation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome to another summer mini-cast from Away With Words. I'm Grand Parrot.

0:24.0

We are working all summer to prepare for a new season of brand new shows in the fall,

0:29.0

but in the meantime we're offering you some great calls that we weren't able to squeeze into past

0:33.4

episodes. Some of the calls we get are not just about grammar or usage, but overlap

0:39.0

into etiquette and rules of civility. For example, when my wife and I were married, she kept her name since she

0:45.4

and her grandfather are the last two people in her family line to still have it. So we get a lot

0:51.0

of letters addressed wrongly to Sarah Barrett or to Mr. and Mrs. Grant Barrett, even from people who know that she kept her last name.

1:00.0

One of our listeners, Emily in San Diego, has the same dilemma.

1:04.4

She's a modern woman and she's bothered by the convention of addressing envelopes to Mr and Mrs.

1:09.5

John Smith.

1:10.5

Shouldn't we also address the woman by first name? See what you think?

1:15.0

So I work for a large nonprofit that works on behalf of the elderly.

1:23.0

And I work in the development department,

1:26.0

so I write a lot of letters to donors.

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