Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

What are my values? What do I stand for? If you think, what do you mean what do I stand for? I can't afford gas, you know? And so that and I understand that right. I'm surviving. You are surviving, but there are certain things you that you're willing to fight

really really fight for and be and that you actually do need you know like for some people for example

spirituality may really matter you cannot minimize that and if a person from

spirituality matters enters into a relationship for someone who doesn't, it's not an

indictment of either of them, but that may not be a language they can use with each other which might leave both of them frustrated.

There's some things that you're not going to fully map on to someone else.

Someone may say, I'm very comfortable with your spiritual world,

I'm simply not going to participate in it and then that will work and they'll say I can see how joyful it makes you but what the struggle here though the main sort of pushback I'm going to have on your list is predicated on two healthy people.

In the absence of empathy your whole system goes away right without that this this doesn't work.

And I think that there is, you know, I think that a lot of people right now in the world are engaging in pseudo-heeling.

And I think it's just narcissistic naval gazing and they're actually not really healing.

What does that mean?

I think is that they're doing whatever they're doing.

Like, I meditate 75 times a day and I do mindfulness this and I

a wask of that and blah blah blah blah and they do all of that but they're still really going through the world in a rather monstrous entitled dismissive contemptuous way like look at my recovery I'm so recovery is like a spiritual bypass a on themselves. I don't care how much work you're doing on themselves.

How do they show it up?

One of the interesting things for me, I was fortunate because I had so, I had no spots in my practice

and I've completely downsized it and mostly have ended most of it.

But I, back in the day I dad say, you don't show up,

you lose your slot.

And you're not in this practice.

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