How To Actually Move On with Tonya Carter
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 12 September 2023
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
I'm joined by Tonya Carter, Marriage/Relationship Exit Strategist, host of Purposely Thriving, and author of Divorce Your Story, to talk about how to effectively heal from a breakup. We discuss why your ex is a non-factor in your healing, the importance of acknowledging that the "what ifs" did not happen, and how to make peace with the closure you received. We answer listener questions about whether or not someone's reason for wanting to end things is genuine or an excuse, getting over a situationship when they're in your friend group, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing |
| 0:14.9 | their stories. Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even |
| 0:20.3 | cry along with us as we navigate |
| 0:21.9 | the dating scene together. All right, you guys, we are here with Tanya Carter. Tanya, you, I'm so |
| 0:28.9 | excited to have you. I think there is so much wisdom and insight and just expertise that you have |
| 0:33.7 | that is going to be invaluable to seeing other people audience. So thank you so much for being here. Thank you. I appreciate it. Thank you so much for having me, Alana. Yeah. So you guys, |
| 0:42.9 | just recapping, Tanya is the host of Purposely Thriving. She is the author of Divorce Your Story. |
| 0:47.7 | And Tanya, you are a marriage and relationship exit strategist. Tell me what that means and how you got into it, because that is so unique and so special. |
| 0:59.9 | Yeah, so initially I did call myself a divorce coach. |
| 1:04.5 | I just didn't like the word. |
| 1:06.0 | It didn't work with me. |
| 1:07.1 | It didn't resonate with me because I felt like I was a lot more just deeper than that. |
| 1:11.9 | I really wanted people to have a strategy once they leave their marriage and once they leave |
| 1:17.4 | their relationship. A lot of the time, many think you just leave the person and then your life |
| 1:22.8 | is just going to be this so amazing. Now, don't get me wrong. You might be relieved. You probably are |
| 1:28.6 | relieved, depending on the circumstances. But then creating that joy and really rebuilding a new |
| 1:34.7 | life does take work. And it does take a strategy to do. So I was like, you know what, I would rather |
| 1:39.7 | be more called a strategist because I'm giving you tools. I'm giving you techniques. I'm giving you |
| 1:45.0 | resources and actually tangible advice to help you mitigate interruptions in your life while you're |
| 1:51.5 | transitioning as well as be strategic about how you want to move forward. Totally. I think that's amazing |
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