How the F do I parent my teen?

Mama Knows

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Parenting, Kids & Family

5.0 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 22 February 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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How was your relationship with your parents when you were a teen? Mine was not so great, that's all I know about that. Teenagers are a special breed and today we are sitting down with Aly Pain, a certified relationship Coach for families specializing in parenting teens! Growing up, Aly was the smart, fun girl on the outside and a frantic, anxious mess on the inside. She spent years healing the pain of dysfunctional family relationships, including eating disorders and a suicide attempt, to break the cycle raising her own sons. Aly's passion is empowering parents to build healthy, respectful relationships with their teens without giving up or giving up, even if they've tried everything and are at their wits end.With over half a million parents investing themselves into Aly's content across social channels such as TikTok, Instagram and Youtube she is helping parents and teens get closer than ever and understand each other more clearly! In this episode:1. Why parenting teens is different.2. How to set boundaries with your teen.3. Consequences, expectations and more.4. Alcohol, drugs, sex.Did you love this episode? BUY ME A COFFEE for support! Find Aly on IG Find Aly on TikTokBecome a Boundaries Boss online program (includes compassionate consequence formula)CODE: BOUNDARIES50 for $50 OFF this course. Teen Resources:TEENS & SOCIAL MEDIATeens & Gaming___________________________Intro Voice: Nina LaurenIGIMDBFind me on Instagram@balkanina@mamaknowspodcastFind me on TikTokBalkaninaSubscribe to my NewsletterPrivate Facebook Motherhood-Podcast CommunityMama Knows FBDisclaimer: This podcast does not provide any medical advice, it is for informational purposes only! ______________________________Did you love this episode? BUY ME A COFFEE for support!Find me on Instagram@balkanina@mamaknowspodcastFind me on TikTokBalkaninaSubscribe to my NewsletterPrivate Facebook Motherhood-Podcast CommunityMama Knows FBDisclaimer: This podcast does not provide any medical advice, it is for informational purposes only! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey guys you're listening to m Knows Podcast with your host
0:13.4	Nina Kavagiola aka Balconina.
0:19.6	Join in weekly as she walks alongside you to navigate topics around motherhood, mental health, self-love, and relationships.
0:27.0	The good, bad, and funny. Hey guys, I am so excited about today's topic. How the F do I parent my teen?
0:40.0	I recall my teen years being some of the hardest years, not only for me but also for the relationship
0:46.1	with my mom. I actually read in an article recently that teenagers' brain at the beginning of puberty completely rewires itself, especially in the prefrontal
0:56.8	cortex, which is the front of your brain that helps with impulse control and feelings and
1:02.1	emotions.
1:03.4	When you compare that to the toddler,
1:05.5	which is all I know, I only have two little kids,
1:08.6	they go through many similar brain changes
1:11.0	and have similar behaviors. But yet the teen is not as easily
1:15.0	controlled as a little toddler. Man, do I fear these years to come and it is why
1:21.0	we are going to dive in deep with my friend Ali Payne, who's a certified
1:26.4	healing coach specializing in parenting teens.
1:29.8	Ali's passion is empowering parents to build healthy, respectful relationships with their teenagers without giving up, even if they've tried everything and are at their wits end.
1:41.0	We have a lot to talk about today, so let's jump right in.
1:44.8	Allie, thank you so much for taking the time to talk to us. Will you please tell
1:49.7	us a little bit more about yourself? Oh, absolutely. I'm so excited to be here and get to have
1:55.2	this time with you. So I came from a relatively abusive, emotionally abusive,
2:02.4	somewhat physically physically home.
2:04.0	My parents also came from trauma.
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