Black women we're progressive because we had no choice to be because if you remember a lot of us grew up with our dad

He's not in the house a lot of us grew up and then when we say we wanted money

We was labeled as gold diggers and now that we independent that's still a damn problem, right?

But now okay now what most people say is that man shouldn't even date until they can afford the woman that they desire

Do you believe that? I don't need that I don't believe that either because as a successful one

And we deal with a lot of problems and a lot of challenges and to be able to go and have like a dialogue in a conversation

Where you can help me think through or think me out of a problem, right?

Be fine and dumb right exactly like a contributor, you know, and like I said I like for me

I'm more attractive to a smart man than a attractive man, right?

Like just the way he thinks I went on a date

It probably was like last month

You got nobody to like come through though

No

No, I ain't in that space

Like you ain't got nobody did you like just pull up with some time?

You know, it's so crazy because I turned 40 in September, and I kind of cut a lot of people off

Oh, yeah, I had a lot of people now that I have a lot, but I had you know people I was talking to right

But I didn't feel like they were like as an entrepreneur like your time is so valuable, right?

And so you got to just be very intentional about how you spend your time and I turned 40 and we were in Jamaica

Actually my travel agent at the time

But and she put me in a couple's resort and I'm like why would you put a woman who's recently divorced turning 40 at a couple's

Resort and I'm there with my social media manager who's a female everybody think we gay and I'm like

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