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Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole with Susan Cain • 233

Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mental Health, Mindfulness, Consciousness, Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth, Inspirational, Awakening, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9897 Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2022

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

We will learn: The powers of a bittersweet, melancholic outlook. Why our world is so blind to the value of our pain. How to transform grief into healing, creativity, and peace of mind. Life can be painful. We get hurt. Or scared. We lose people. We start over. So we feel the pain of fear or loss, grief or longing. Some say the highs of your joy are equal to the depths of your pain. So today we’re talking about the transformation that happens when we experience sorrow and longing. Our guest is Susan Cain. You may know her as the author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, which spent eight years on The New York Times bestseller list, and has been translated into 40 languages. She also has a TED talk that has been viewed over 40 million times. Her new masterpiece book is Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole. Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/233 Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes from your highest self. Get Mind Love Premium for exclusive ad-free episodes and monthly meditations. Support Mind Love Sponsors See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to Mind Love episode 233.

0:03.0

Today's episode is all about how sorrow and longing make us whole.

0:07.0

Whatever we are experiencing internally, it has a way of communicating itself to the people around us.

0:14.0

People are attracted to slash want to work with people who are in that state of

0:22.4

emotional grounding,

0:23.6

and who have made sense of the different things

0:26.2

that have happened to them in their lives.

0:28.4

And I think that's why the phrase toxic positivity

0:31.6

has become a kind of cliche almost in our culture but

0:34.2

there is something kind of toxic about excess positivity and the thing that's

0:39.3

toxic about it is that it's not truthful you, and we do not like not being told the truth.

0:45.8

We don't like it.

0:46.6

We rebel against that.

0:47.9

We also don't want to live in a culture that's telling us not to tell the truth. Turn up your frequency with mind love.

0:57.0

Bitesized brain hacks for seekers, dreamers, and doers.

1:01.0

It's time to give your mind a little love with your host, Melissa Monte.

1:06.0

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podcast. You're listening for the first time, don't forget to hit the

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subscribe button so you always know about new episodes.

1:23.4

Plus it makes you one of my favorite people.

1:26.1

Because the more subscribers I have, the more I attract amazing guests

1:30.6

to help better serve you.

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