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How Should I Handle My Regrets?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2019

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Every single one of us can look over our lives and find failures we regret. How do we deal with remorse in light of God’s mercy?

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0:00.0

Well, how should we consider our life regrets?

0:07.6

The small regrets, the bigger regrets, the medium regrets.

0:10.6

We all have regrets of various sizes.

0:13.3

The question comes in from Marvin, a podcast listener, Hello, Pastor John, I'm a 72-year-old

0:17.7

man with four grown children.

0:19.4

My wife is with the Lord now.

0:21.5

All in all, my life has been good, and I think I served the Lord for a lot of those years,

0:25.3

but I can look back on many opportunities I missed in life.

0:28.7

Those trips I didn't take, missionaries I didn't support, even professional opportunities

0:33.3

I did not take and probably should have, waste, better invest and redeem my time at every

0:38.0

stage along the way, at my age I harbor a bunch of little regrets about my past.

0:43.0

All those small regrets add up and leave me wondering, is it possible for an older man

0:47.4

to look back over his life and conclude that I frequently missed God's will over the

0:51.5

years?

0:52.5

Or is who I am now the will of God perfectly manifested in all my decisions?

0:57.2

Therefore, I should have no regrets at all.

0:59.6

How should an old man in Christ who believes in the sovereign orchestration of God's

1:04.3

providence look back on his failures and his missed opportunities?

1:09.0

Well, as you can imagine, this strikes very close to home, he's what, 72-year-old, I'm

1:16.6

73.

1:18.0

I am that man, right?

1:20.2

Marvin and I are both in our early 70s.

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