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How Should a Husband Treat His Quarrelsome Wife?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 June 2019

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

“Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.” What are readers of Scripture supposed to learn from a proverb like this?

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In the last third of the Book of Proverbs, the theme of the Coral Some Wife is brought

0:08.1

up five times in Proverbs 19, 13, 21, 9, 21, 19, 25, 24, and 27, 15, and those references

0:17.2

raised the question, is a husband encouraged to separate himself from such a wife?

0:22.2

This is the question today, not from a man but from a woman, a listener named Sarah,

0:25.9

Hello Pastor John, I enjoy listening to your sermons in the podcast, the Holy Spirit

0:29.2

works through you in mighty ways to teach the word.

0:32.5

My question is regarding verses in Proverbs 2, husbands about their wives, specifically

0:36.4

Proverbs 21, 9, better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a Coral Some

0:41.6

Wife and Proverbs 21, 19, better to live in a desert than with a Coral Some in nagging

0:46.6

wife.

0:47.6

In the verses and specifically in Proverbs when it's talking about the Coral Some Wife,

0:50.8

I get the impression that the man should not stay with a wife of this character, or at

0:54.2

least, it is not good to be with a wife who is Coral Some.

0:57.6

Is this a warning to men and being wise and selecting a wife, or is this for women?

1:02.3

A warning to wise and future wives to root their hearts and God's wisdom so we don't

1:05.7

become Coral Some, and how does this verse apply if a wife does in fact become Coral Some

1:10.1

later in the marriage?

1:11.1

I know God's will is for a man and a woman to stay together for life, but can you bring

1:15.5

clarity on the meaning and wisdom that should be pulled from these verses that seem to

1:20.3

suggest separation?

1:24.1

If a man reads Proverbs 21, 9, and 19, then I'll read him again, it is better to live

1:33.0

in a corner of the house top than in a house shared with a Coral Some Wife, it is better

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