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🗓️ 11 December 2018
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Pornography is something that all men have likely engaged in to some degree. What's fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men.
My guest today, JK Emezi, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get work, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity.
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J.K EMEZI
My guest today is J.K Emezi.
He is a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach and has been for the last 9 years and he specializes in helping men overcome porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders.
This is a fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified to address the sexual issues a lot of men deal with.
He's written for our site before and one of his articles happens to be one of the most controversial of ours to date as he covers a topic that a lot of men aren't comfortable in discussing and one that remains very polarizing to a lot of men.
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0:00.0 | pornography is something that all men have likely engaged into some degree, but what's fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men. |
0:11.5 | My guest today, JK, Amazie, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get worse, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity. |
0:27.7 | You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly charge your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You are not easily deterred and defeated. |
0:40.2 | Rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man. |
0:52.7 | Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan McClure, and I am the host and the founder of this podcast, The Order of Man, whether you're new or you've been a long time listener, I'm glad you're tuning in, I'm glad you're implementing some of the information we're talking about. |
1:04.7 | I'm glad you're following in and having the conversations that we're having with regards to reclaiming and restoring what it means to be a man in a society that seems to be increasingly forgetful regarding what it is that it means to be a man and what our role is of protector, provider, and presider. |
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3:36.7 | Go take care of that after the show guys. Let's tune into this one. Again, my guest today, his name is JK, amazing. He is a sex and pornography addiction coach, which I know a lot of men out there are dealing with this. He's been in the business in the industry for the last nine years. |
3:50.7 | He helps guys overcome porn masturbation, some of these other sexual compulsive disorders. And guys, this is a very fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified and well versed to talk about the sexual issues that a lot of men deal with. So he's written for our site before a lot of you guys might be familiar with it. And one of his articles happens to be one of our most controversial to date because he covers a topic that a lot of men frankly just aren't comfortable discussing. I understand why. |
4:19.7 | And one that remains very polarizing to a lot of guys as well. So that's what this is about. So tune in, take some notes if you need to share this. If you know anybody who may need to hear it, it is definitely a conversation that I had been asked about. And I'm glad to bring this conversation with JK to you guys. |
4:36.7 | JK, what's up, man? Thanks for joining me on the show today. It's a pleasure to be here. Thank you for having me. |
4:41.7 | I've been connected for a couple of years now. And you did an article for us. Gosh, it must have been a year, maybe a year and a half ago on the damages of pornography, which was polarizing. We'll call it that. It was polarizing, which is amazing to me. I don't think it's all that polarizing, but it seems to be that the subject of pornography and masturbation is. Do you find that to be the case? |
5:04.7 | Was it polarizing on your blog? Yes, it was. Really? Yeah. Okay, I wasn't aware of that. I did not know that. |
5:12.7 | Yeah, it was kind of interesting that and any time the subject of pornography is broached within our Facebook group, there's polar ends of an opposite ends of the extreme. See, there's somebody's like, no, it's bad. Don't do it all or it's just not a big deal and nobody sees the problem with it. There's no middle ground or anything. |
5:31.7 | It's just really, really interesting to see. I see a lot of destruction that comes from it. And I think there's a lot of guys who either don't see that or refuse to see that maybe or I don't know, we can hash this out today. |
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