How often should you text your girlfriend slash partner?

Well, as I talk about an 3% man, if you've been dating a girl for a while and you're in a serious relationship, I mean, typically, women are, their feminine energy is bonding, connecting, opening up to receive love, relationships, dating, labels, family, all of the nesting together, all of those things.

And what's going to happen most of the time is if a girl, if you're six, eight weeks in and you're serious, you're typically going to be at her

house at night where she's going to be at yours. She's texting you a couple times during the day

or maybe calling you and she knows when you get out of your afternoon meetings or whatever it happens

to be. And so in that case, there's really no reason to have to reach out to her. I mean, if the girls text, you know, my experience has always been, is the women text and call throughout the day. They always do that. And if you never call her text, you might get a, hey, how come you never call her, text me? I'm always contacting you. It was like, babe, I love seeing your name pop up in the phone. And I'll come back with something funny and humorous because the reality is women like you more if they have to call and text you more.

Now, if they start complaining about it because some of them will, then maybe once a week you surprise her with a text.

And next week, it might be a phone call.

Another week you might write her a little

note and tape it to the visor in her car and says, I love you, thinking about you, have a great

day, babe. Put it in her purse, maybe you write her a little card. The point being is her

complaining that you're not texting or reaching out as her way of saying, I want to feel

like you care about me. And so you take the

feedback, but you do it in your own mysterious way. So she's like, I don't know what he's going to do.

She goes home and she's looking under her pillow. She's like, where did he hide it? I know he left

me a note somewhere because you do things. And it's just, that's part of the fun of romance and relationships.

And the reality is, is when you're in a serious relationship and you're going to pretty much be together and in contact throughout today and you're going to see each other at night.

And it's counterproductive because what guys will notice is if they start calling and texting more and initiating more, the woman backs off and she initiates less.

And then what happens is the responses get shorter.

She takes longer to reply.

And then when you want to get together for a date or to do something, you notice she's not as excited about it as she was before the reality is it's a

scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear they like it

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