oftentimes the problems in the bedroom are just the result of problems outside of the bedroom.

If you're not emotionally connected, you're not going to be physically connected.

If you're not spiritually connected, you're not going to be physically connected.

If you're not good friends taking care of one another, you don't feel safe being together.

And so oftentimes people are like, I want more sex.

And the other person is saying, I'd like more marriage, and the other person saying, I'd like more marriage.

I'd like more relationship.

I'd like more connection.

All right.

Mark and Grace Driscoll here.

Welcome to the Real Marriage podcast.

We're doing a series of special episodes where we answer your specific questions.

And it's really weird.

They're always about sex. And so I'll just tell you people are very in a lane. So, um, it's either a guy asking because he wants us to tell his wife or a wife

asking because anytime you, so you tell them what the question is. How often should a married couple have sex?

And usually there's one of two people asking it.

The one who wants more or the one who wants less.

Yes, exactly.

So is, um, does the Bible give us a number?

No.

It doesn't.

Bummer.

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