How Much Time Should I Spend With My Ex When She Wants Me Back?

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 21 December 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's
0:05.3	newsletter is going to be, how much time should I spend with my ex when she wants me back?
0:11.3	What's particular emails from a guy? He's kind of long distance. He's in the military. He lives
0:16.2	in California. This girl lives in Texas. And so they'd kind of been long distance.
0:22.6	He was in her state for a while, but she just basically said she couldn't do the long distance thing anymore.
0:26.6	It was too difficult.
0:28.6	Broke up with him.
0:29.6	And then two to three days later, she's texting him constantly.
0:32.6	And he's like, I need to be able to move on and heal because this is not helpful.
0:36.6	And now they have a date to get together because I guess he's going to be need to be able to move on and heal because this is not helpful.
0:42.4	And now they have a date to get together because I guess he's going to be in Texas for a week after the holidays.
0:48.6	And so they've agreed to get together to have a drink and maybe some dinner and ketchup.
0:53.8	And he's, you know, originally before she dumped him, they were going to spend the whole week together.
0:58.3	But now that they've been broken up and he's just got a date set, he's like, how much time should I spend with her?
1:07.1	So the simple answer is as much time as she wants, as much time as she's available and you're available.
1:09.5	Because your job is creating an opportunity for sex time.
1:12.4	Hang out, have fun, hook up. So you go back go back you go on your date say it ends in the three hs maybe she stays with you stays over i mean this
1:17.8	woman's a teacher so i imagine she'll be out for the holidays in other words she's not going to be
1:22.0	teaching school because everybody's off and which is a good thing so if she's available
1:32.6	then what i would do is just keep hanging out with her.
1:34.8	It's like the date, you know, she stays in night.
1:36.1	You get up, hey, let's go do this.
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