How Much Should I Tip My Vendors?

Betches Brides

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🗓️ 21 August 2023

⏱️ 63 minutes

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This week, Fallon is joined by yet another Betches team member, Ali Scelzo. As an August 2023 bride, she shares what she’s most excited to see IRL and what anxieties still remain, especially without a wedding planner or month-of coordinator to oversee on the day-of. She asks Fallon about tipping etiquette — what’s appropriate per vendor? — and making the guest book unique to them as a couple. Then, the duo get into your listener questions, from one young bride who doesn’t feel like she’s being taken seriously by vendors to another (destination) bride on the hunt for affordable hotel rooms for her guests. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome back to another episode of Betches Brides. I'm your host, Falling Carter. I always feel like
0:09.7	these intro should be like so joyous and happy and talking about weddings. But when, like, on a
0:17.6	personal note, my life just is kind of upside down. Like, I am grateful for all of my blessings.
0:29.6	I'm not discounting anything. But I also feel like I'm in a season of healing and self-exploration
0:38.0	and kind of digging deep to kind of refine how I show up, how I engage with others. And on a real
0:49.1	serious level, like, what am I holding myself back from? And also getting to know who I am
0:56.1	in this ever evolving journey of myself. Who am I? What do I like? What do I want to eat?
1:03.6	What activities am I interested in? And one of the reasons, and I don't know if I've expressed this
1:09.4	before, but one of the reasons I moved from New York to the West Coast was so that I could kind of,
1:16.0	I felt like this analogy, in pardon me, if you've heard this before. But living in New York
1:22.5	felt like looking at all the brushstrokes of the picture and living on the West Coast kind of
1:28.6	feels like you're taking a step back and you're looking at the picture as a whole. So I've been doing
1:34.2	a lot of soul searching to like really identify exactly what is the kind of life I want to live.
1:42.0	How do I want to show up as a person? Who do I want to serve? And kind of how do I really live a
1:49.6	purpose-driven life, like pro Oprah? So I am everyone's like, why would you go there to catch your
1:57.2	breath and find silence? Because there's just a level of peace out here that I'm really enjoying.
2:06.0	I mean, of course, when I come back to New York, I'm like, why do I really, this place is amazing,
2:09.7	but it's at the same time. I am enjoying taking a deep breath for once and not feeling
2:19.6	the energy alone of New York is just so intoxicating and beautiful and invigorating and everything
2:29.7	that I love and I miss it often. But I think where I'm trying to go requires a little bit of
2:35.8	solitude and it's going to require being pulled away from comfort and vices and some of the things
2:44.2	that I was good at getting myself into when I was in New York. Just levels of pleasure, I will say.
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