So because guys are able to look at things from an objective perspective, they're able to separate,

of course, logic and emotion. So with that being said, when you approach him with the fact

that you're upset about your current relationship status or lack thereof and he's answering

nonchalantly and feeling blindsided saying wait like where is this coming from like come on like we

were doing good like we were doing well what happened all of a sudden and you're just like i'm just

tired of being treated like this like

all this stuff he's looking at you like i don't get it we were we were doing fine like you were

accepting every of everything that was going on because as long as you don't bring up anything

which has to be established in the beginning, then he's just going to keep on keeping on.

So at this point, now that you're upset and you feel like you're tired of waiting around for him to finally choose you, you know, for him to finally make a commitment to you for him to

finally figure what it is that he wants to do to him it's like all right well I

don't know why you're being so emotional about it because in my head I already

checked off that box of I already knew what you were I already made the decision that you weren't going to be my girlfriend, whether it was

conscious or not.

One of my favorite quotes that Steve Harvey said was, you were either being played with

or planned with.

Really actually think about that because it's one of the two.

There is no other option.

So again, when you sort of are in a state of emotional distress and you're approaching a guy

or starting to act funny and giving him the silent treatment or acting

weird, he will be confused. And that's not to say that some guys don't know what they're doing

because they do, but a lot of the times guys will feel blindsided by your sudden change of

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