How Losing Her Job Changed Her Entire Dating Life
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 4 December 2025
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by my friend Jude Cohen to talk about dating in your 30s and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart at once. Jude shares how losing her job and leaving the corporate world completely shifted the way she dates and sees herself. We get into her best and worst dating stories, from Third Date Club to a friends-with-benefits situation that actually worked to the first-date disaster she still thinks about weekly. She also talks about how running the marathon rebuilt her confidence and what finally helped her stop choosing the wrong people. Follow Jude on IG at @jco10 and TT @jco101
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| 2:01.7 | super easy to slip into. And the emotions don't get me started. The heroine is navigating |
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