How I Overcame My Dating Anxiety
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 21 September 2023
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
On this solo episode, I open up about the biggest dating anxieties I faced when I was single, and more importantly, how I overcame them. I reflect on where they came from, how they impacted me, and what steps I had to take and lessons I had to learn in order to feel more comfortable and confident in my dating life.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.7 | Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered. |
| 0:09.7 | It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always unfiltered experiences. |
| 0:17.7 | Think you're alone out there? |
| 0:18.8 | Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or |
| 0:21.7 | whose last date ended up being a catfish. Think again. Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another |
| 0:27.3 | episode of seeing other people. I hope you guys are all having a great day. And if you're not, |
| 0:33.8 | I hope this episode has something in it that will make your day a little bit better. |
| 0:38.2 | I've been trying to recognize when I'm not having a good day instead of just feeling bad, |
| 0:46.4 | bad, bad, bad, bad the whole time. If I start feeling bad, I'm like, okay, what's going on here? |
| 0:51.5 | Is there something I can do about it? Why am I feeling this way? And I feel like |
| 0:56.4 | kind of breaking it down like, okay, I'm upset because of this thing. Is there something I can do |
| 1:01.5 | about it or not at this current moment? If not, what else can I do to make myself feel a little |
| 1:07.4 | bit better? And if there's something I can do, if there's nothing I can do, but if there's something I can do, there's nothing I can do. |
| 1:11.0 | But if there's something I can do related to the situation or not, like even going for a walk, |
| 1:16.6 | getting a smoothie, you know, taking a break and watching a half hour of a show or working out, |
| 1:23.4 | whatever it is, I'm trying to put it on myself to do that thing and kind of take responsibility |
| 1:28.4 | for how I'm feeling because it feels better to recognize that you're not feeling well, |
| 1:34.4 | do something about it, and then be able to go about your day feeling a little bit better. |
| 1:39.7 | So if I'm not finding you in a place where you're having a good day, I hope that something in this |
| 1:45.0 | episode or even just tuning out, listening to this episode helps you feel a little better. |
| 1:49.3 | And I'm excited to get into it. |
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