How I Found My Soulmate // Relationship Goals: In Real Life (Part 1) // Pastor Michael Todd

Transformation Church

Religion & Spirituality

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🗓️ 15 February 2026

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

This series has the power to change every relationship you’ve had, have now, and will ever have. In Week 1 of Relationship Goals: In Real Life, Pastor Michael Todd reminds us that the goal isn’t just chemistry—it’s healthy relationships, and healthy relationships start with healthy people. Pastor Mike unpacks the four foundational needs we all carry: to be seen, soothed, secure, and safe, and challenges us to examine our soul health. God is your soulmate—your spouse is your soul match. When you stop expecting people to fill a place only God can occupy, you make room for relationships that are whole, healed, and built to last.

Culture has a lot to say about love, but this series injects God’s perspective into what culture lacks wisdom on. This message challenges us to ask the hard questions: Is your soul healthy? Are your thoughts healthy when no one else is around? Would you marry you? We pray this message and series gives you the clarity and confidence that you need to win in relationships!

Scripture References
Matthew 6:9-10 ESV
2 Peter 1:3 NLT
3 John 1:2 NJKV
Psalm 19:7 NASB
Psalm 25:12-13 NASB
Psalms 23:1-3 NASB

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0:00.0	Welcome to Transformation Church podcast, where we represent God to the lost and found for
0:07.5	transformation in Christ.
0:08.9	We're so glad you're here, and wherever you're listening from, we believe God will
0:12.9	transform your life through today's message.
0:17.8	We are starting a brand new series.
0:20.7	This is week one of a series we're calling
0:24.3	relationship goals in real life. Now, now, now, now, now, now some of y'all are scared because
0:33.0	some of y'all lost your last boyfriend after the last relationship goals series.
0:38.3	Others of you got into counseling for the first time.
0:41.3	Others of you got a relationship with God, I'm promising you, as this is my third time doing
0:47.3	a relationship series like this, this is unlike anything I've ever done.
0:52.3	The Holy Spirit interrupted the flow of what I thought I was going
0:55.6	to do during 21 days of prayer. I thought I had a plan. And this is why you keep going back to God and ask him what he wants you to do. Because sometimes he'll tell you what you need to know to get you past where you are to then change it to what you need to do. Y'all missed it. Sometimes He'll be like, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're going to do that just so you'll be like, great, I have a plan.
1:14.3	And then when you're going to be like, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're going to do that,
1:11.6	just so you'll be like, great, I have a plan. And then when you get there, he's like, yeah,
1:16.1	that's not the plan. This is what I really want you to do. And you have to be open to the
1:20.1	spirit's moving. And so I wasn't planning to be in this series, but the Holy Spirit said,
1:24.0	right now, I need you to inject my voice into a cultural conversation
1:31.4	that they have no wisdom on.
1:34.3	Y'all didn't hear what I just said.
1:37.2	We are listening to people on podcasts that have not had a successful relationship in a decade.
1:48.9	Tell you what a man is supposed to be and how female should be. You're lonely. Alone. Your likes and followers are the people you get
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