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Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

How God Can Redeem Your Sexual Brokenness

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2023

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Sex is meant to be a gift from God', but how can you see it as a blessing when you've made many mistakes? Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery share how the gospel can redeem you from sexual brokenness. You'll also hear a powerful story from Dr. Greg Smalley, as he chats with his wife Erin and John Fuller.

 

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0:00.0

Hey friends, here's the latest episode of my podcast, ReFocus with Jim Daily, featuring

0:04.6

former NFL player, Benjamin Watson. He shares about protecting the lives of every human being,

0:10.4

pursuing justice for all. Visit ReFocus with JimDaily.com.

0:20.7

Well, here's an important question. What was the message you heard as you grew up about sex?

0:26.4

Was it that it's God's design? Was it that we don't talk about that because it's special?

0:32.3

Was it something that had shame associated with it? There's a lot there, and we're going to unpack

0:38.9

a little bit today on the podcast. I'm John Fuller, along with Greg and Aaron Smolley. They

0:43.6

lead the focus marriage team. And Aaron, there are some common messages probably that you've encountered

0:51.1

that are symptomatic or representative of what most people seem to have heard. What do you think?

0:58.8

So often, what individuals experience in their family of origin is that sex isn't talked about

1:04.8

at all. So then, thus, as kids, we make assumptions, and as we grow into adolescence, and then into

1:11.0

20s, 30s, whatever, and we get married, we realize, we didn't talk about this. So what does it mean

1:17.3

about sex? Is it shameful? Is it dirty? Is it sinful? Why didn't we talk about it? And then we get

1:23.8

married and all of a sudden, like, let's have sex. And oftentimes, we're not viewing it as it was

1:30.8

really intended for this gift, this enjoyment, pleasure for all these different purposes, the

1:38.2

unity that comes through it. And we're not seeing it for that. Plus, then there's messages we

1:43.0

receive from well-meaning people about what your job is as a wife. What does a godly wife do

1:48.8

around sex? And what does a godly husband do around sex? So it's just recognizing all of that

1:53.8

influences our experience. It's so important to identify what am I believing about sex, and

1:59.4

is it aligning with what's true? And of course, our truth comes from God's Word, not from man,

2:05.5

from God's Word. Yeah, identifying, naming it, and exposing it to biblical truth. That's so

2:10.6

important, not just for what we believe about sex, but all of life. But let's go ahead and hear

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