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The High Performance Podcast

How Giving Up Alcohol Transformed Everything, with Dr Alex George

The High Performance Podcast

High Performance

Sports, Growth Mindset, Mindset, Non-negotiables, High Performance, Health & Fitness, Life Lessons

4.64.8K Ratings

🗓️ 9 January 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

This special episode is brought to you in partnership with Fora Space.


Dr. Alex George joins Jake for an open, deeply human conversation about happiness, mental health, and the quiet changes that can transform a life. He challenges the idea that doing more or achieving more will make us happy, explaining why we put happiness on a pedestal while ignoring emotions like sadness, grief, and frustration, even though every emotion has a purpose.


Dr. Alex also speaks honestly about sobriety, social pressure, and why you don’t need to hit rock bottom to rethink your relationship with alcohol. This conversation also explores grief, therapy, ADHD, and the stigma around men expressing emotion. Dr. Alex reflects on learning to sit with difficult feelings rather than escaping them, why walking therapy helped him process loss, and how cultural expectations can silence people until it’s too late. 


This episode offers a powerful, practical episode about choosing awareness over avoidance, and building a healthier relationship with yourself, one step at a time.


Dr Alex's new book "Am I Normal?: Understanding Your Place in a Complex World" is out in January.


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0:00.0

me deciding to stop drinking was the single best decision i've ever made bar nothing there

0:08.6

is nothing in my life that has come close no career decision no path that is the single best

0:15.0

decision i've ever made everything else that follows on was because of it yeah i suspect it will be

0:19.2

for a long time.

0:27.5

That was the voice of Dr. Alex George, an A&E, doctor, a reality star, turned a mental health advocate, a podcaster, a youth mental health ambassador, and now an author. But behind all of those

0:33.0

campaigns and all of that incredible work, behind his public face face was for so long a man medicating his

0:39.9

life with alcohol. So December 4th, 22, sitting in a hairdresser's chair, Alex was at rock bottom,

0:47.7

20 stone drinking to suppress the grief of losing his brother to suicide. And it was at that

0:52.5

moment that he took an honest look in the mirror

0:54.5

and it was the catalyst for transformation. He gave up alcohol. And as you've just heard at the start of

0:59.6

this episode, it changed everything for him. And we're about to explore why so many of us are

1:04.9

auto-enrolled into drinking, why it's the only drug you have to explain that you don't take,

1:10.1

and the three groups of people that Alex believes should never drink at all.

1:14.5

Please make sure you hit subscribe and share this live recording with Dr Alex, George,

1:18.8

with someone that you think may well benefit from the amazing wisdom that he's got to share,

1:23.5

as we welcome Alex to high performance.

1:30.2

Alex, thank you so much for coming and talking to us.

1:32.8

It's really nice to see you again.

1:34.5

Before we sort of get on with the structure of the conversation,

1:38.1

I just think the way that your journey and your career has gone since Love Island

1:42.7

has been absolutely fascinating to watch on the outside. What's it been like to actually be in the middle of it? Because you seem to be doing a different project and a new thing every single time I talk to you. Maybe that's ADHD, I don't know. I think it's been an interesting experience. There's many kind of lows and highs and everything in between, to be honest. I think, you know, people often ask me the question, like, has it made your life better? Are you happier? And I couldn't honestly say, I think my life is better off because of everything that has happened. I think I've experienced so much. And I think I've probably contributed more. Yeah. And I think I've done more because of it. But actually when I look at it in many ways, so I used to work, we're obviously recording this in Central and I used to work at King's College, London which is not far away. And then I eventually went over to Lewisham to work. I loved that, love that hospital. I worked at A&E. It was a dopamine heaven with ADHD, kind of running around this, you know, you've got You, you've got a stabbing here and something else going on there. It was chaos, but I loved it. And I used to cycle to work every day. I'd do my job. I had a good group of friends. Life was kind of good. And then I got persuaded to go on the show, literally dragged on the show, actually mostly. Thought it was a two-week holiday, which was perfectly aligned. My contract was ending at the hospital. And turned out things went very differently. But I'm very grateful. I managed to do lots of different things in my life. But I don't think that doing lots or being externally successful actually makes you happy necessarily. It's always going to be within. It's interesting, isn't it, as you get older? There was a period where I thought, like,

3:11.9

happiness is the goal, right? But actually, the more that you live, the more that you do things,

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