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How Far Is Too Far Before Marriage?

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John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2013

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

God designed sex to bring joy, and he reserved this gift for marriage. How can we guard ourselves to avoid awakening sexual feelings outside marriage?

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Pastor John, several listeners have emailed to ask this question, how far is too far for

0:10.0

an engaged couple to go sexually before marriage?

0:13.2

It's a really important question.

0:18.6

Our culture is, of course, a wash in sexual titillation.

0:25.0

You can hardly open your internet without some advertising on the side of awakening some

0:32.2

sexual desire or watching advertisement between the TV program or going to any movie almost

0:38.0

without some kind of titillation.

0:39.6

It's really amazing what we're having to deal with these days.

0:44.9

And so when a young man, a young woman or an older man, an older woman, if that matter,

0:50.8

begin to hang out together.

0:53.0

What should they do physically is utterly crucial to ask.

0:58.0

The Bible is our guide and our authority.

1:02.6

It does not have a single sentence somewhere that says, okay, engaged couples, okay, couples

1:08.3

that are starting to date.

1:09.9

Here's what you can and can't do.

1:11.8

And so the way we have to approach it is by putting together truths from the Bible,

1:19.7

which when they come together, lead to sick conclusion.

1:23.3

So let me try to put together a few of those and I'll see if I can be brief here.

1:27.6

Number one, sex is good.

1:30.3

I don't want to start with mainly, oh, bad, bad, bad, watch out, watch out.

1:36.1

Sex is good.

1:39.4

First Timothy, four, three, the days are coming when people are going to forbid to eat certain

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