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How Does the Gospel Speak to Self-Hate?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2019

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

The Bible has a lot to say about the issue of self-hate. Where should we begin if we’re talking to a non-Christian who struggles in this area?

Transcript

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0:00.0

It's a topic that gets talked a lot about now.

0:09.6

So how would you go about sharing the gospel with an unbelieving friend who struggles with

0:14.2

self-hatred?

0:16.2

Hello, Pastor John.

0:17.2

Thank you so much for what you've been doing.

0:18.9

I'm Ray Noldo from Jakarta.

0:21.1

I listened to your podcast more than I read my Bible and I should change that habit.

0:25.5

Yeah, exactly.

0:26.6

And although you should change that ratio immediately, my question, I have a friend and

0:32.0

she is a Buddhist.

0:33.6

She struggles with self-hatred and I am confused about what I have to do about it.

0:38.9

I listened to her and I want to help.

0:41.0

But what should I do?

0:42.0

I could give her a self-help book, I suppose.

0:44.9

I'm afraid if I get straight to the gospel, which I don't have a problem saying to her,

0:49.6

she will not listen to me.

0:51.4

But if I give her a self-help book with tips about overcoming this anxiety, I'm afraid

0:55.2

that she might improve without experiencing the forgiveness of Christ.

1:00.4

So I guess I want to share the gospel with her sooner than later.

1:03.7

If you had a non-Christian friend who struggled with self-hatred, how would you proceed?

1:10.0

Well, let me just underline Tony's misgiving about reading or listening to Piper more

1:17.9

than the Bible.

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