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Ask the Pastor with J.D. Greear

How Do You Find a Good Church?

Ask the Pastor with J.D. Greear

J.D. Greear

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 630 Ratings

🗓️ 3 July 2023

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

This week, Pastor J.D. welcomes back Pastor Tony Merida, author of Gather, to answer, “How do you find a good church?”

Show Notes:

J.D.: Every now and then on Ask Me Anything, I get the chance to sit down with someone who I think can answer a question a whole lot better than me, and that’s the case today. I’m sitting here with Dr. Tony Merida, the author of several books including his newest book, called Gather. Tony, the question today is, how should someone go about finding a good, solid local church? What qualities are underrated and which are overrated in looking for a new church?

Tony Merida: The Reformers used to say there are two marks of a church: the right preaching of the gospel and the administration of the sacraments. Tied to the sacraments was church discipline. That’s not all there is, but those are two starting points by which, if you don’t have those, you don’t really have a church. If you don’t have the gospel, you don’t have a church.

So the first question I’d ask is, what does this church believe that the gospel message is, and do they not just assume it, but preach it all the time? Is it the “main thing?”

Beyond that, you might start with Acts 2:42-47. You have what seems like the “perfect” church. I think you can categorize what Luke describes in that church with four vital signs, so to speak.

  • Biblical nourishment
  • Loving fellowship
  • Radical generosity
  • Constant interaction (with each other)

There’s also vibrant worship evident, and then there’s “word and deed” outreach — or mission. Evangelism seemed to be a daily thing. Those are some good starting points to look for in a healthy church.

J.D.: So, you start with the right teaching of the gospel. How important is expository preaching?

Tony: I don’t know that I would say it is necessarily expository preaching that is the absolute requirement; instead, I would ask, is the preaching substantive and is Christ exalted from his Word week by week? Or to say it another way, is there Word-driven preaching present?

I don’t think you have to go through a book of the Bible at all times, necessarily, for it to be considered a Bible church (though I think a Bible-teaching pastor will eventually do a lot of that).

I like to say expository preaching is the “meat and potatoes” of our preaching, but occasionally, we go out to eat.

As far as community is concerned, it’s good to consider if the church is just a place where people simply come and go rather than thinking of the church as a people that we can serve.

If I were looking for a church, I’d be in prayer. I’d do my research. I’d want to try to meet with pastors and leaders… It’s not easy. There’s a whole lot more to church than the website.

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0:00.0

Hey, everyone, welcome to Ask Me Anything. And I'm Matt Love, and once again, I'm not here with Pastor J.D. because Pastor J.D. is with Pastor Tony Merida.

0:27.6

And they are going to be answering another question today. And this week, they're going to talk about another great question. It's church related.

0:34.6

But how do you find a good church? I know that is a question

0:38.8

a lot of people are asking. You move to a new city. Something changes, you know, and you're realizing

0:44.2

I need to find a really good church. How do you go about doing that? Just Google, what do you do?

0:49.3

So I think this is going to be a great question for them to answer. And we'll go ahead and dive right in.

1:00.9

Well, welcome to ask me anything. As you know, the typical format here is we will take a

1:05.2

question from our listening audience and we'll do our best to give a short, hopefully clear

1:09.7

answer to it. But every once in a while,

1:12.5

every once in a while I have a chance to have somebody who is much smarter than me and somebody

1:17.1

that I have a privilege of calling a friend, which is what is the case today, I'll be able to ask

1:22.0

them the question because I know that they're able to answer it much better than I can.

1:25.7

When it comes to issues of the local church and preaching, there's a guy that I've looked up to for a long time, even though he's

1:30.7

younger than me. And his name is Tony Marita. And he's sitting right here. You can't see him, but he

1:35.6

is just the best-looking 46-year-old you will ever lay your eyes on. He has written several books, but one I'm holding my hand that is very intriguing to me is

1:45.2

called Gather. It's a new book. He wrote a book previous to that called Love Your Church,

1:50.5

eight things about being a church member, that he said basically was what he wanted to give to

1:54.1

new people coming to his church to say, this is what's important about being a church member.

1:58.5

And then it took a chapter out of that and said,

2:06.1

I'm going to expand that whole thing into Gather that just explains why meeting and being a part.

2:10.1

The way we always said around the Summit Church is it's not an event you attend on the weekend.

2:15.2

It's a family that you belong to. And the best explanation for that is probably this short little book called Gather, what you're supposed to be getting

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