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But I digress from the point. The first point I wanted to make is how do we make marriage easy?

Because this is something, this is the way of shaitan.

You know what the way of shaitan is,

well you all the hell, you'll all right,

put it so brilliantly.

The way of shaitan in a society is,

you make the haram easy and you make the halal difficult.

When Allah says get young people married, or get non-married people married, allow them to get married.

This is a broad commandment.

And who does it apply to?

You would think it applies to people,

okay, once this boy has graduated from school,

once he's got a good job,

once he's got a good amount of savings, once he's got a good amount of savings once he's got a little bit of the return on investment paid back to his parents

You know once he's done this this this this this and this and once you know everybody else in the family is taking care of then we'll think

about getting him married because if we get him married right now all of his

attention will go to his wife we're not going to get anything. So we need, this is our son, this is our

investment. We need to get our money's worth first before we allow him to get

married. And even when we do get married, this needs to not just be a matter of

our material gain this is a matter of family pride we need to make sure that

someone that we can show off you know someone that we can be proud of and take lots of pictures and invite you know have a huge gathering ceremony and be able to show that we married in an upper class family etc etc so the considerations for how you get somebody married, you put age restrictions

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