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So I have been listening to the show and as well as Dr. John Deloney's show for years.

But my husband and I have been living paycheck to paycheck and using credit cards to fill in gaps.

Fast forward to today, I'm pregnant with baby number two to do at the beginning of November.

Congratulations.

Thank you.

And I'm four months into intensive EMDR therapy just surrounding my childhood trauma. it feels like a fog has been lifted and I'm

seeing our situation more clearly and now I'm just terrified and don't know the right way out of

the mess that we've created financially.

Can I just tell you that that's EMDR is tough and that's a courageous move on your part.

I'm really proud of you.

Like for real.

And you're pregnant now.

You've been going through that for the last few months?

Yeah.

Yeah.

That will have that will have dividends on your child's nervous system that's growing inside of

you like what you've done is is literally changing your family tree i'm so proud of you it's amazing

thank you thank you so i remember one time, I was doing some hard trauma counseling.

And a few months later, my counselor asked me, and you may have heard me talk about this on my show,

she asked me, like, what do you feel? And I said, I feel like my marriage is great, my kids are great,

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