Have you ever been to the zoo and wound up witnessing some unexpected animal porn when

a couple of sea otters start going at it in front of a class trip?

Those sea otters don't give a f*** who's watching. Literally.

But human relationships share a lot more in common with our fellow animal brethren than just

the old bump and grind. There's evidence of long-term relationships and monogamy and numerous

other species throughout the animal kingdom, which means love is ingrained in our DNA.

And often for humans, love is the most important thing we do. A 75-year Harvard study found

that good relationships are the biggest predictor of overall happiness, health, and fulfillment life.

Basically, love is the only thing that really matters. Since Valentine's Day is a right around

the corner, I wanted to do a deep dive on love, from how long it takes to fall in love,

to attraction and chemistry, to side effects, both good and bad. So don't be stingy with those

kisses and hugs, know it all, because you are now entering the ultimate love fest.

Hi, my name is Bella, and you might know me as Jay is from TikTok or YouTube.

But you're about to know me from this podcast. Know it all, know it all.

And each episode I'm going to help you become and know it all about something new.

Here we go.

Love is in the air, and I've definitely been into the rom-com spirit. So I was super stoked to get

an early preview of to all the boys, always and forever. I don't want to spoil anything for you,

because the movie drops on Netflix February 12th, and you've got to watch it for yourself,

but the whole premise of the to all the boys I've loved trilogy is based on love letters.

Why did I write these stupid love letters? And after doing some research, it really cracked me up

to learn that senders of love letters tend to overestimate the awkwardness and underestimate how

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