How do narcissists make you out to be the problem?

The Narcissists' Code

Lee Hammock

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 30 May 2024

⏱️ 13 minutes

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How do narcissists make you out to be the problem? How is it that toxic narcissistic people always can find a way to make it out to seem like you are the abuser or toxic person in the relationship? In this video I go over 3 tactics that narcissists use to paint you as the narcissist or abusive person.

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0:00.0	What is going on beautiful people today? We're going to be talking about how narcissists make you feel like you are the problem
0:08.0	How they make you feel like you are always the issue or your reactions are the issue.
0:13.0	If you knew here, my name is Lee Hammock,
0:14.2	I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist
0:15.9	and welcome to another episode of the narcissist code. Oh, So welcome back, welcome back, folks, yes. Some toxic, toxic, some toxic,
0:40.7	some toxic, narciss, or not some, this is going to be a lot of most toxic narcissistic people want you to feel like you are the problem.
0:51.0	That's just factual. They want you, they want, yeah,
0:54.0	out. One of the reasons, one of the main reasons why they want you to feel like you're the
0:57.7	problem is because that's the easiest way to avoid accountability. How do you avoid accountability? Make the other person feel like they are at fault.
1:08.0	Make the other person here in this issue, here that is dealing with me me make them feel like they themselves are at
1:14.9	fault that's just the way it goes right there that's the easy way to go about doing it right
1:20.5	there like if I can convince you that you are the problem, then I win.
1:27.3	You lose, I win. It's about wins and losses. If I can convince you that you are in fact problematic or you know I win.
1:36.8	So how do they do this?
1:38.5	In what ways can a narcissist make it seem like you are the problem. The main way, the main way is your
1:46.8	reactions, how you react. It's crazy isn't it? Like you get a lot of covert and sometimes malignant overt narcissists that talk to you in a calm manner when you are screaming and you are yelling and you are losing your mind because you're angry as hell because you're hurt, right?
2:05.0	There's a lot of toxic narcissistic people that do that right there.
2:10.0	They, while you are yelling and screaming and they are recording you some of them will record you right in your face some of them will you know have it like a
2:17.4	Damn body cam or James Bond microphone on but they'll record your reactions or your voice to make it seem like you are problematic.
2:25.6	And it always, somehow always seems to happen that they seem to always get your reaction right not what led up to it not what and not how we got here
2:37.1	But how you're acting
2:39.1	So that's one main way that they can make you seem like you a problem by catching you in the
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