How do I talk about myself if I'm supposed to let the woman do 80% of the talking?

Well, these are basic rapport building skills. And as I talk about in 3% man, especially

anybody that's ever been in sales, because somebody that goes to a car dealership, or maybe

you're looking to buy houses or whatever

you're looking to buy a certain product we're all kind of on edge because we're expecting a sales

pitch or some kind of high pressure clothes and what is really disarming to people is when

you meet a salesperson like obviously in this, he's selling himself to a girl.

And on a first date, you know, if a guy is trying to sell himself to a girl, the best thing to do

to create rapport is ask questions. Ask the kind of questions she would enjoy answering. What do you

want to know about her? What does she love? What does she love to do for fun?

What are hobbies, her interests, her goals, her dreams, the things that light her up on the inside, because this elicits good feelings. I mean, if you think about it, what happens when you run into an old friend you haven't seen in a while? how you've been how's the kids how's the wife how's the family how's the job how's the house you

still got that new car how's the motorcycle racing's the wife how's the family how's the job how's the house you still got that new

car how's the motorcycle racing going or whatever happens to be and so when you meet somebody and you

let them do most of the talking because the other thing is women typically say about 8000 words a day

us guys say about 2,000 words. So women are natural talkers.

They're typically going to talk more. And so it accomplishes several things by not running your mouth and talking about all your accomplishments. Because when you do that and you want to talk about yourself, you're putting the vibe out that you're trying to prove yourself to her that you're good enough for or that you make enough money or you have a nice car you have a nice house you have nice clothes oh look at my Rolex or

whatever i've got three nice watches or when you're doing that that's making up for the fact that

you don't feel worthy of having a woman like that choose you so So you talk about your stuff or your accomplishments.

And the woman's sitting there wanting to get to know and see what you're like.

You also want to be mysterious.

And if you're talking all the time, you're not going to seem mysterious.

Every woman that you'll ever meet has gone on dates with guys that they really liked

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