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The Art of Accomplishment

How Do I Stop Being Misunderstood? (Coaching Session)

The Art of Accomplishment

Brett Kistler

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Personal Development, Mental Health, Business, Management

4.9 • 272 Ratings

🗓️ 12 April 2024

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

When it comes to being understood, whose responsibility is it? What do you do when you feel misunderstood? In this episode, Joe coaches Savannah, who is grappling with feeling wilfully misunderstood by people in all areas of her life. Together with Joe, Savannah explores how state of mind, emotional content, and the desire to control an outcome—even just trying to control whether you’re being understood—impact how we are listened to and understood. She experiments with and discovers the difference between listening to and being in connection with oneself in order to express herself fully and to be understood.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, everybody, it's Joe Hudson and welcome to the art of accomplishment, where we explore

0:11.0

living the life you want with enjoyment and ease.

0:13.5

And today we have a very special episode.

0:15.7

I did a coaching session with a woman and it just was really impactful.

0:20.3

It was all about not feeling heard and

0:23.3

listening and really helping her find out what it is that is preventing her from really feeling

0:32.5

heard in her work and in her life. And it relates so much to the last episode we did on an on week,

0:39.6

not one of our off week episodes. And so it just was really important. And unfortunately,

0:44.5

I screwed up. I, uh, I pressed some wrong buttons and I messed up the microphone. And so the

0:51.4

sound quality is really poor. And normally we would never release something with

0:56.0

bad sound quality because we just want to treat the audience with more care than that. And so we

1:01.1

would re-record it. But unfortunately, we can't re-record this. There's no way. This is kind of a once-in-a-lifetime

1:06.8

thing. And we thought it was so special that we are releasing it with poor sound quality.

1:12.9

So if you're an audiophile, apologies, it's going to be a little bit painful. And just understand

1:20.1

it was something that we didn't want to do as far as sound quality, but we thought it was so important

1:24.4

and special that we are going to release this thing anyhow.

1:31.3

Okay, so enjoy, and I hope you get a lot out of it.

1:33.3

Hi. Hey, how you doing?

1:35.3

Good. So what's up? I know nothing except for your name.

1:40.3

Yeah, so my name is Savannah, and what I was hoping to talk about today is I would like to do better with feeling misunderstood.

1:54.4

So when I make all attempts and use the best communication hygiene I possibly can, and the other party seems determined to

2:03.3

take different meaning than what I'm giving. I struggle a lot with that in many areas of my

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