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The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

How Do I Know It Is Addict Behavior?

The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Self-improvement

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2020

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

How do we know if it is addict behavior or just our partner being annoying?  What do we do about it?  How do we find out?  These are the questions addressed in this episode.  

We are glad you found our season 3 episodes where we share some of our most advanced learnings and bring amazing experts on when it comes to relationships, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.

Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. 

We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.

If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal

It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.

If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org

To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring

To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com

Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey. 

Transcript

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0:00.0

All right, how do I know when it's addict behavior?

0:07.0

We are so glad that you're here because you're choosing to thrive after betrayal, trauma, or addiction.

0:12.0

Hi, I'm Ashland, the once betrayed. I'm Ashley, the once betrayed.

0:13.7

I'm Kobe, the once addicted.

0:15.2

And I'm Brandon the expert.

0:16.6

Now why am I an expert?

0:18.1

Because I've treated betrayal trauma and addiction

0:20.4

for over a decade. OK guys, really good question.

0:24.0

We're going to review though before we jump into that.

0:28.0

And this review is called a light in a very dark tunnel.

0:35.0

This is we have been listening to your podcast

0:37.1

for a few weeks now.

0:38.5

Every morning my husband and I listen to an episode

0:40.9

independently and talk about what we learned from it. We've been working on my spouse's

0:45.1

addiction for over 10 years. We've done 12-step, books, therapists, and a long-term recovery plan.

0:51.3

All have given us some tools,

0:53.8

but we have continued to hit brick wall after brick wall.

0:58.0

During all three of your perspectives

1:00.4

at the same time on the same issue has been monumentally helpful for both of us.

1:07.0

Thank you for being so courageous and vulnerable.

1:09.5

I can imagine your story is helping thousands.

1:12.0

That was a very kind review.

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