How Do I Initiate In A Sexless Marriage? #696
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 2 October 2024
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
In this call-in show, I address the challenges faced by Julie - who has been married for over 30 years but have lost intimacy in the relationship.
We discuss the complexities of rekindling their sexual life, the dynamics of desire, and the impact of erection issues on their intimacy.
Our conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding each other's needs, and embracing the awkwardness that comes with trying to reconnect.
Ultimately, intimacy is not solely defined by sexual performance but also by emotional connection and mutual support.
Takeaways
Intimacy can fade over time due to various life circumstances.
Open communication about desires and needs is crucial.
Initiating intimacy can be challenging when past experiences create hesitation.
Foreplay should be a continuous process, not limited to the bedroom.
Understanding each other's sexual drives can help bridge gaps in intimacy.
Erection issues can create pressure and anxiety in sexual encounters.
It's important to reassure each other during intimate moments, regardless of the outcome.
Embracing awkwardness can lead to growth and deeper connection.
Intimacy is about more than just sexual performance; it's about connection.
Recognizing that both partners have different needs and desires is essential for a healthy relationship.
On the Xtended Version ...
We continue the Power Moves conversation by focusing even more on our own part in the dynamics of marital communication and moves.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the show. |
| 0:03.0 | I'm Dr. Corey Allen alongside my wife Pam each and every week. |
| 0:07.0 | Oh, it's good to be here. |
| 0:08.0 | We're having honest straightforward conversations, trying to help frame how married life |
| 0:16.6 | unfolds, how sex unfolds, how problems unfold, maybe how we can navigate out of them. |
| 0:22.8 | Solutions, ideally, is a good way to look about it. |
| 0:27.1 | I think we're all looking for solutions, |
| 0:28.9 | but I think for us in the way we try to do the show |
| 0:31.1 | is we want to frame possible ways to find solutions because every single |
| 0:36.5 | marriage is so unique, ours included in the way things go. |
| 0:42.8 | They're unique but isn't that part of what the show is, |
| 0:45.8 | is that we're also going through the same thing. |
| 0:48.7 | We're also all not that unfamiliar with each other |
| 0:52.1 | and the journeys that we face. |
| 0:53.6 | Yeah, we're not alone. |
| 0:55.1 | Yeah. |
| 0:56.1 | Well, if you want to find out how you in fact are not alone, |
| 0:59.2 | and the way you can do that is let us know what's going on in your world |
| 1:02.1 | because we'll walk alongside and |
| 1:05.4 | you'll have other people that do as well so you can call us a two on four seven |
| 1:09.0 | nine five six five or feedback at sexy marriage radio.com. |
| 1:14.0 | Also, we want you to come join us in June of 2025. |
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