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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

How Do I Help My Wife Get Turned On?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 12 October 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Q: How do I help my wife get turned on? Friends – we’re talking about sex! And the sex series continues with this important question!!! Over the course of the next few weeks, leading up to the book launch of Married Sex: A Christian Couple’s Guide To Reimagining Your Love Life (CLICK TO PRE-ORDER TODAY!!!!), we’re taking all your questions about sex! Gary Thomas, my co-author, is joining me as co-host for this Love & Relationships Podcast Series: All About SEX! Today’s question comes from a man who wants to do his part in helping his wife get turned on during sex. So how do you arouse your wife and get her turned on? We’re covering tips, advice, and suggestions to focusing in on the wife on today’s episode of the Sex Series! So tune in this episode of the Love & Relationships Podcast and follow the show by clicking on the button below! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: Everlywell & ABIDE FOLLOW MY PODCAST AND LISTEN ON Apple PODCASTS BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO Are you ready to take your sex life to the next level! Pre-Order Married Sex Today and Get The Couple’s Guide To Talking About Sex, as well as the first few Audiobook Chapters FREE that you can start listening to, TODAY! ATTN MARRIED COUPLES: check out the upcoming Married Sex Online Conference! 25+ seminars about sex, 12 months to stream, plus a FREE copy of our book Married Sex! Register Today!! And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season, and Are You Really OK?, and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felata.

0:24.4

For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor and author of five books.

0:30.5

My podcast is typically a hotline style show where I tackle all your questions in candid, practical, bite-sized answers. But for the next few weeks,

0:39.9

we're shifting gears a little bit. We're going to be talking all about sex. I'll be taking all

0:46.5

your questions about sex and intimacy and answering as many of them as I can. My newest book is

0:53.0

called Married Sex. It's loaded with practical steps,

0:57.1

candid conversations, and start today methods that are going to help you take your sex life

1:02.7

to the next level. It's a book I co-authored with pastor and bestselling marriage author, Gary

1:09.0

Thomas. We decided to tag team this message to bring you a male,

1:14.1

female, pastoral, counselor perspective. Gary will be joining me as co-host for this podcast series,

1:22.3

and there's no question we're afraid to tackle, so send them all in. This is such an important conversation,

1:29.9

such an important book, and such an important series, because there's not enough good content

1:34.9

and conversation out there about sex. And we want to change that. Our new book, Married Sex,

1:41.3

a Christian couple's guide to reimagining your love life, is available anywhere

1:45.3

books are sold. So go grab your copy today at Marriedsex.us. We can't wait to get this content

1:54.0

into your hands. Let's take a listen to today's question. Hey, Debra and Gary.

2:02.0

Just wondering how I can help my wife feel more turned on leading up to sex.

2:10.2

Today's question is a really important sex question.

2:14.1

How do you get your wife more turned on leading up to sex? I mean, a lot of guys are

2:20.4

wondering and wanting to know what does it look like to help my wife get aroused? What is my role in that?

2:28.2

So I'm excited to have Gary Thomas joining me again for this conversation. Hi, Gary. Hi, Debra.

2:37.2

So, you know, I'll toss it to you first,

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